I have not read this entire thread because I can't.
I have thought about it. This is not the worst beating I have seen, or endured. Not the worst for many.
I am oddly happy that she was fore-thinking enough and had the ability to film it. What trouble did this cause her at the time? I don't know. I didn't get past the video. I hope she remained with a parent and not foster care, or if foster care, I hope she was one of the very few that are fortunate.
I always wished to be removed from my home as a small child, and until I moved out as a teen. I am happy I was not now that I know what foster care is like. It may have been worse.
This young lady may have been like me and many others, but not all. You know in your heart that the abuse is wrong, but it is all that you know, all that you are taught. You think there is no reason but their own thoughts. And that is the only reason. The parents thoughts, past, present. It is not you, the child. She is fortunate in this innate knowledge.
I only ask from her, now that it is public, that she join or start a campaign and help system for abused children and her mother can join one for abusive parents. A way that children can reach out without fear. Without more abuse for reaching out, yes that is what I received.
I hope there is more awareness and more ways to seek help, confidential, the parents need not know, and in the case of the abusive parents the neighbors need not know. Someone please start something with the right background behind it, organizations with therapists, safe houses, anything. But keep the promise to the child that the parents will never find out and hurt them again. It cannot be broken, they will never reach out again.