rsd1200
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I agree with all you say about abuse, however, if she was abused, then she would know that breaking it off with him would likely set him off, because statistically it takes many tries before leaving for good. So, if she was abused, why would she break it off with him while leaving her child in his care. That just doesn't make sense, unless she only cared for her own safety.
Agree totally. I've just seen some strange human behaviour over the years though. If she'd fled to get help, yes, I could see her discreetly doing that, and coming back with LE, or family, if her children were being abused. Abusers will sometimes make one, or all, of the children stay with him, to ensure that mom comes back from her job, or grocery trip, and on time. They check odometers too.
I doubt he'd have allowed her to get on that flight, though, to see her family, if she truly broke up with him, and he was abusive to her. Many abusers control the money and the vehicle. I don't really think domestic violence, as far as BB is concerned, is the case here. It appears she may have turned a blind eye to the abuse that was going on with her child.
I don't think she broke up with him and I don't think she was abused by him. I think she turned a blind eye, based on what QX has stated. Although I'm not so sure about QX, mom could have interjected at any time and corrected what he was saying.