Djgirl. You put my exact thoughts into words. Who in God's name suspects someone is molesting their daughter then leaves her with him for an indefinite amount of time? Even if BB were abused herself, say you're taking Maleah to the funeral with you, or any story to get her AWAY FROM HIM!!!! I can't with these self-centered "mothers"... $*&#$@*...MHOO and all that.