Pmerle,
I am sorry if it feels like I'm pestering you. And again, I have no reason whatsoever to doubt you or to be suspicious. I just want to understand, so that hopefully, I can help #BringPaPawHome.
This is purely my personal opinion, but I think it is pretty extreme to have one's missing spouse deceased solely for financial reasons, especially as quickly as BC has.
About what you said about the phone situation:
1. May I ask who it was that said BC did
not cancel her account? And just to confirm: So BC has kept the same service provider account (Verizon, IIRC), but only with her phone. Has she kept the same phone, or did she get a new one, and if she did get a different phone, do you know what happened to the old one? I am particularly curious as our other VI posted the following just last night:
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BC told JC to find another phone service cause she was cancelling the Verizon acct. He offered to make the payment for her so he wouldn't lose the phone #. She refused this.
She told him that she had received money from donations and she pd JC's phone off. JC was upset about this for more reasons than just losing the phone number." (RBBM)
http://www.websleuths.com/forums/sh...ounty-10-March-2017-4&p=13612875#post13612875
Everyone is different, but it it were me, I think I would have used the donation money to keep PaPaw's phone active (as many have said, at perhaps as low as $9.99/month) as long as I could, while having JC make the payment .
2. Why would BC remove Justin's phone from the account, especially when she had to pay off the remaining balance for the phone?
3. How long after PaPaw went missing was his service put on hold? And how long after that was his phone disconnected entirely?
I know you said just the other day you were still looking into some of these things, so if you cannot answer, I understand.