Just got current on this case. I admittedly had to skim through a lot of pages of endless male/female guesses. Sorry but I never would have gotten current if I hadn't. All great discussion though!
Some random thoughts/questions...
1. One of the very first things I saw was the interview with BB. The "I'm not giving an interview." interview. What he said that stood out to me is that for the past ten months, his wife had been texting him I love you messages every morning, and he was using that to show how great things were going with them. My question: Why did this start happening ten months ago? What was going on eleven months ago? Had there been an issue that they worked through at that point that made her start sending these texts? As in, we worked through this and now we're back on track and I'm committed to reinforcing that daily.
2. Jumping off the above...my hubby and I are crime show junkies. We DVR several programs like Dateline, Snapped, 48 Hours, etc. and watch them together at night. It's amazing how many spouse murders involve an affair on someone's part. So many in fact that we have a joking habit of yelling out "triangle!" early into many many episodes and are usually right. When there's a triangle, it's a dangerous thing that can lead to murders in a variety of scenarios. We've seen a few cases of the spouse being out of town when it happens. A solid alibi does not prove no involvement. I'm not blaming BB, just throwing that possibility out there. I think it's likely that one of them was messing around, maybe got found out ten or so months ago, which could have put this whole thing in motion. Think jilted lover, etc.
3. Like many of you, I'm a bit surprised that we haven't heard a peep out of MB's family, unless I've missed that somewhere. Very little noise from her friends either. In such a big case that seems odd to me. I wonder why?
4. I'm confused about the new news that the perp tried to clean up the scene. If I understand the timeline correctly there wasn't much time for cleanup after the murder. Might be an erroneous statement?
5. Watching interviews of BB, he is constantly touching his face, digging at his head, etc. He also makes little to no eye contact with the camera or interviewer. Ok, body language experts, what does that indicate? I truly don't know and haven't had a chance to look that up.
6. I actually gasped at the article linked today about the LEO busted for stealing guns from work. Especially when I saw the mugshot. Wow!
7. Even with the enhanced pics I can't figure out gender, age, etc. The only thing I'm sure of is that our suspect is human.
Rock on, my fellow sleuths! You're doing a great job. I pray the police have this figured out and are just dotting I's and crossing T's.