The issue of which way a struggling parent can turn is one that really needs to be addressed.
With each passing generation we seem to be seeing a reduction in fear of authority or consequences of behaving badly.
When i was a kid, the threat that my mother might call for our local copper to come and see me was more than enough to make the hairs stand up on the back of my neck!
Now nothing seems to bother teenagers, they have no respect or fear of police or teachers or parents....in fact more of them are bothered about their followers on twitter than they are about any of that stuff.
Parenting is becoming a different job to the one it once was and also in my opinion we need to revisit the whole idea of a 16 year old male being regarded as a child.
In so many ways, todays 16 year old is far more worldly wise than i was at 18.
Times are changing rapidly but the measures and safety nets for parents are still the same ones which to some extent were wholly inadequate in their day 30-40 years ago.
A bigger debate much needed methinks