I agree, I have done very silly things too.....but walking away from safety with a strange man, when there is rapist attacking students in the area is a bit of a leap IMHO. The uni would have been hammering home safety, discussions with friends and worried parents would have no doubt taken place.
In those circumstances I think there must have been more than alcohol blindsighting her, if he was indeed a stranger. jmho.
As someone who bartended for years I have to say that it's not much of a leap at all unfortunately. People this age seem to have an "it can't happen to me" mentality.
Throw alcohol into the mix and I'm not surprised at all what people do even "responsible/serious" types.
Someone asked and it was answered but yes, hypothermia can cause people to shed their clothing, it can also make people wedge into strange places. Many deaths causes by
hypothermia have appeared suspicious at the outset because it appears as though someone tried to hide the body.
Also, people greatly underestimate the amount they drink and I not once saw a case where someone was actually drugged and not just drunk.
It's easy to blame the bar staff but alcohol is tricky. Someone can appear fine after it's consumed and before it's kicked in fully. I could cut someone off but if I cut off
everyone after a couple I would have an angry mob or an empty bar, it's hard to tell someone they've had enough when they know you, try it with a stranger. Then they just have their friends order the rounds afterwards. If I have hundreds of people coming in I don't think it's fair to expect me to track them all while they are in the establishment as well as afterwards. If that is expected the amount of staff required would cause the prices of alcohol to be exorbitant to the point that there would be no clubs open at all. I greatly believe in personal responsibility. Have a sober person in the group even if none of you are driving. Honestly, can anyone imagine what it would be like trying to hold every drunk person from leaving and try to get a cab company to drive them against their will, what if someone argued that they didn't want the cab and therefore didn't want to pay? That cab company wouldn't keep coming around very long. And call the police every time someone leaves after having too many? These solutions just aren't logical or feasible.
I loved the idea of the school mentioned upthread that would allow students to take a cab and pay within a couple of days. I would be very willing to
even put $100 or so ahead of time on my kids student card when he goes to uni to be used for that purpose if the school/taxi company feared they would not get paid. That's a great idea.
So sorry for this poor girls family. I hope and think it was just a terrible accident and nothing more sinister happened.