BreadnLumpit
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In fairness we don't know where in Wales they were living - there's plenty of rural areas there, so they may have been in the countryside for a while before hightailing it back to city life... but she never moved to the countryside, did she? Good point re behaviour and personality disorders not being mental illnesses.
My question is still about what it is about this particular relationship that makes her behave so erratically?
I accept eccentric arty neurotic flighty and those kinds of adjectives for anybody living in an untypical manner but this is a step further.
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We're never gonna know, are we?
Some 'scandals' might emerge but nothing major, I think.
It's always difficult to understand other people's disfunctional relationships. I just see their relationship as one of toxic symbiosis:
IMO she, having grown up with staff picking up after her, doesn't know how to cook and keep a clean house but knows how to give orders, and he grew to adulthood in prison - where a different sort of staff picked up after him and gave orders.
I suspect that both of them are equally volatile and prone to domestic violence rather than it all being one sided, and that they both see that as "being passionately in love" rather than domestic violence. But just like everyone else, I don't know and I'll never know - I'm just reading between the lines and drawing my own conclusions based on my own life experiences and those of people close to ne.
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