I can understand Shelley the life coach being upset, that's natural, but I think she has no professional boundaries at all. I also accept I may be prejudiced!
Shelley Whitehead and Helen were also friends. I feel for her too because he deceived everybody. Relationship coach or not, she isn't immune sadly.
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Just wanted to quickly log on.
A very emotional day.
Needed to come on here to share with those who understand.
Will post later.
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Didnt want to put this up before the verdict.
Here's a link re Boris - still makes me very angry just to read it.
Boris has had a big upheavel in his life.
His lady owner is becoming increasingly stressed with the situation – which he will be picking up on. Poor little dog.
One big problem is that guests, especially with a bit of social alcohol in them, ignore instructions! They will wind up the dog – maybe unintentionally – doing the very opposite of what they have been asked.
http://www.dogidog.co.uk/little-dog-cant-cope-with-too-many-noisy-humans/
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Paying client or friend?
Even if you are from a totally unregulated "profession" - life coach- it's got to help if you know your client well and are willing not to say what your client wants to hear. ( recall the previous counsellor who HB used to call the Doktor)
I thought Tony Hurley, from his testimony, had a better appreciation of who Helen was than this lady.
Murdered By My Fiancé, will be broadcast on Channel 5 on Thursday at 10pm.
A body language expert has said Stewart was good at hiding his lies but showed his guilt through his actions when he was arrested.
Cliff Lansley, an emotional language analyst, watched the police footage of Stewart's arrest and interviews for a Channel 5 documentary on the murder.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...-fiance-GUILTY-murder.html#i-d95a23bbaf583bad
I thought people like that - ie counsellors - were bound by a professional code of conduct that they could not enter into personal relationships with clients? Or is that just sexual ones?
Originally Posted by cottonweaver Even if you are from a totally unregulated "profession" - life coach- it's got to help if you know your client well and are willing not to say what your client wants to hear.
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Paying client or friend?
Even if you are from a totally unregulated "profession" - life coach- it's got to help if you know your client well and are willing not to say what your client wants to hear. ( recall the previous counsellor who HB used to call the Doktor)
I thought Tony Hurley, from his testimony, had a better appreciation of who Helen was than this lady.
BBC news report said "after his wife's death he was seen out with other women", I am assuming they are from one of the widows groups but IDK. We know he had some one-off dates with widows.
That's the bit that has always been missing for me... other women. Manipulators like IS tend to always have one or more women on the go even if they're not really interested in them sexually, they're interested in what they can get from them in exchange for their companionship. I also wouldn't have been surprised if the reason IS didnt want to marry Helen was because he had somebody else already lined up.
I have a healthy suspicion of anyone calling themselves a "life coach" or "relationship coach".
Not doubt that there are some excellent people out there with those titles who do a fabulous job. One boundary which shouldn't be crossed is the blurring of therapist and friend....she seems to have done this with Helen. As such she will have met IS and not been able to provide independent therapy or input.
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That's the bit that has always been missing for me... other women. Manipulators like IS tend to always have one or more women on the go even if they're not really interested in them sexually, they're interested in what they can get from them in exchange for their companionship. I also wouldn't have been surprised if the reason IS didnt want to marry Helen was becuase he had somebody else already lined up.
He was certainly chatting to a good few women in the widow group via FB. My friend was one. He had them all conned.