I can’t stop questioning P’s wife’s level of awareness that something untoward was going on with her husband. On a basic, practical level, they are working in a food factory, and have two young children. They are likely on minimum wage and living in modestly sized terrace house. P is alleged to have stolen a Kindle, a Playstation, a speaker, laptop, money... aside from the underwear, photograph (of who?!), condoms (why?!) and sex toys. Assuming that the non sexual items were taken for monetary value then he probably brought them home, maybe advertised them on Gumtree or sold through word of mouth. But no matter what way he went about it, it’s very likely that Mrs P would have at some point wondered where all the money/ expensive items were coming from. Also. How stupid/ brazen does he have to be to steal in his OWN street. Adrenaline junkie.