#1- I don't think the apple ever falls far from the tree.
#2- Why would you bail out someone who is hiding information, fabricating information, and misdirecting information about the grandchild you're desperately hoping is alive.
Family? give me a break. Family doesn't make other family members "disappear" and then lie like crazy about them, distressing the family.
My concern is that if they are going to now attempt to distance themselves from the actual event of the disappearance and potential death of their grandchild, they really need to do so. Let her go back to jail, if she's gonna' talk anywhere it's there, not in the nurturing environment that they've claimed they're giving her (that she tried to leave in the first place).
If you save her from her consequences, you support her actions. This is why the Anthonys are getting such a hard time. Society is telling them that their actions are enabling Casey to be who she is, and that they need to let her suffer her consequences. They don't want to hear it, and are unwilling to act on it.
Fine, that's their position, and I respect the fact they HAVE a position, however, I am part of a society that doesn't agree.
Saving her from her consequences stops her from learning that her actions, lies, etc DO have consequences.
My suggestion? Throw her to the lions, until she breaks. THEN offer support. As a parent myself, that's a tough thing to do, but I see it to be the right thing to do. It will build character, and a sense of personal responsibility. You don't support the lying and misdirection, you support the good, positive efforts towards getting the lies and misdirection cleared away, right? Then DO that!
Think about it: if you had a magic device that removed all pain from a child even as it occurs, would it be a good idea to always use it? Or do you think the child will eventually set themselves on fire not realizing that it consumed them? They NEED that "oops" moment that hurts them.. if they don't get it, they'll never learn. It's called feedback; no feedback, no growth.
Seems like perhaps this is how Casey's life has possibly always been.. a little sheltered by parents who allowed her to do bad things without real consequences. She has now set herself on fire as a result.
I'm glad they have representation of their own now. I won't address the rumors that the "annonymous" bail money came from the Caylee search funds, nor will I address the rumors that it's the same source of funding for the lawyer team, the best in Florida, when initially, they were unable to pay Casey's bond.
The Anthony's have been prone to sharing information that they shouldn't have shared.. aggravated by lying to reporters. Neither of those are "wrong" or horribly bad or anything, but many of the statements make them look more involved than they want to be.
The (paraphrased) "Rotting pizza and bleach made the smell, not just the pizza" statements will haunt me for a long time, considering how far ahead that revelation was to the release of information regarding the detection of Chloroform (which consists primarily of bleach and acetone) in the trunk.
That's the kind of thing that really didn't need to be said. If they'd said "a bag of trash was rotting in the trunk with perishables in it, while it was in the towyard." I think it would have gone a long way towards putting them in a different light.
Am I saying they're innocent of any and all wrongdoing? no, but I'm suggesting that the way they've handled this has certainly made them look bad. If they are, indeed, guilty of anything that's punishable, I'd suggest that the case investigators know more than has been released and that they'll deal with that.
On top of that, I agree that they are grieving for the loss of their granddaughter, but am a bit surprised that they hold the key to that right in their hand and are unwilling to do anything about it. The clock is ticking, or it may have already clicked... point is.. it WAS clicking.. even before the events unfolded.
It feels to me as though they're doing this so they can say "well we tried everything we could to support our daughter, but it couldn't change who our daughter was."
I defy their right to EVER say that.
Throw her to the wolves and let the truth come out. If there is to be any healing, it requires the wound to stop being created. Just look at the daughter "well I can see that calling here was a waste of time". THat's the impulse of someone who doesn't comprehend what the situation is doing to those that try to offer support in the hopes of getting their granddaughter back.
General population.
Reap what you've sown, and all that. Her learning period is over and she failled to learn. Perhaps it's time for her punishment to begin so as to draw this all to a conclusion, where she can give information and cooperate, or face general population. Partial exposure to general population should be enough, considering what the sentiments of her cellmates would be in regards to her.
Full release to general population would probably get her killed. That's not an environment in which you want to be accused of crimes against your children, especially with all the lies clouding the investigation.