Shades of Charles Vallow.
I'm deeply confused about cases where someone has warned other people that their spouse might kill them, and yet they stay in the marriage trying to make it work...wouldn't you at least throw away any food or drink this person served you?
Perhaps people who have been married understand this? Do marriages go through a phase, where you believe your spouse is trying to kill you, but counsellors advise sticking with it because 'this too shall pass'?
JMO
I suppose it would depend on how my family reacted- wouldn’t it?
If I went to my family because my husband was trying to poison me… just a guess but I think my family would react like this…
Unless I showed signs of some kind of mental break… my family would take such a claim very seriously.
- Ask me to leave and take the kids to safety, go into hiding with an obscure cousin my spouse didn’t know
- Get legal help to freeze assets, file for restraining order, file for divorce
- Get to medical facility to have test for evidence of poisoning
Would there be any talk of- Oh, you can’t be serious. I’m sure you are wrong, he is so sweet… just stick it out for the kids sake… Maybe a vacation would help your marriage…
Oh no, the threat of death would be taken seriously.
So, that is what we don‘t know. How did his sister, friends, family react when he told them he thought he was being poisoned? Surely they didn’t suggest he stay in the marriage!
What made him stay and keep the boys in her care? It makes no sense to me that he took actions to protect his money and assets but not himself and his boys!
Very strange
JMO