I'm kinda getting the idea that the shaken friend was an online friend. Of course, we don't know! I'm super curious how this friend knows both AA and ML.
From what it looks like to me, with very little info, is there is some sort of online group - and people meet and eventually get to know each other. And, it's a bit odd the friend wanted to see AA in the face. I don't want to read toooo much into it as it was a shocking moment at the press conference, and people say odd things in shocking moments.
IDK....curious situation. Would really like to know more.
jmo