VA - Anjelica "AJ" Hadsell, 18, Norfolk, 3 March 2015 #13

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bessie said:
Zach sent this text to Tricia today and gave his permission to post here.
Very hard. I was there when her body was loaded up and carried away. She wasn't alone. God was with my dad and I and we prayed on the road there. Websleuths helped me tremendously. Thank you. This isn't over. I'll be back online some time soon.
**Zach also wanted to stress that it is NOT 100% certain that the body is AJ.**
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Thank you for sharing that with us, bessie. I guess it's time to cry all over again.
 
margarita25 said:
I have to be honest and say that I too have "gotten in on the tail end" in cases I didn't follow, when there was huge development in the case. For example, Lizzie and Lyric, and even recently when I posted in Chelsea Bruck's case for the first time when part of her costume was found just the other day.

I know what its like to feel the frustration of going in circles, repeating information, I felt this way in Elisa Lam's case, in which I was there from the beginning, then all of a sudden same old questions etc etc. I remember I even made a not so nice post which was understandably deleted.

You guys know I have been here since DAY 1, with a small handful of people from the time AJ went missing. But there is also a lot I missed...not everyone can follow every post, every case, every thread, every detail, and in this case particularly there are so many posts that even a seasoned wser like me has had trouble keeping up.

I guess what I'm trying to say is don't be too hard on new people coming in, asking for an update. At least they care...I hope this is coming out right. I know what you guys mean about catching up on the basics, but in this day of immediate information, it helps sometimes to just ask a question outright, as I have done many times before.

JMO
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luckyseven said:
Zach's words sound like a confirmation to me... Couldn't imagine him being willing to refer to the remains as "her" unless he knew. He's not one to give up hope lightly.
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I agree, Seven. Thank you so much Bessie/Tricia for sending this from Zach. My heart and prayers continue to be with him and his family. What a real blessing his dad could be with him and they could pray together. I continue to be amazed at what an inspiration this man is. Oh, Lord, please help him through this deep, deep valley.
 
threecrazykids said:
Please - all of us - hold our babies tight tonight. On a completely unrelated note - I just (within the last few minutes) received notice that my sons best friend was killed in a horrific car accident just outside of our town. He, his 2 siblings, and another relative - all gone in seconds.

Our time on this earth is precious - please...please...hug your loved ones and tell them how much you love them.
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So true, threecrazykids. I went through this last Easter weekend with a friend of mine. My heart hurts with you and I weep for these young lives lost too soon. Yes, I will hug my children tighter and pray for them more. Bless you and my prayers are with your son...this must be devastating for him.
 
threecrazykids said:
Please - all of us - hold our babies tight tonight. On a completely unrelated note - I just (within the last few minutes) received notice that my sons best friend was killed in a horrific car accident just outside of our town. He, his 2 siblings, and another relative - all gone in seconds.

Our time on this earth is precious - please...please...hug your loved ones and tell them how much you love them.
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So sorry to hear that, threecrazykids !!!! *hugs* :(

Off-topic and unrelated... but my mom had surgery a few months ago and is still recuperating. On the day of the surgery my dad and all of we siblings, grandkids and two great grands -- those who could make it--- gathered at the hospital to hug her and let her know how much we loved her. Very scary time and I've been thinking for the past couple of months how precious life really is !

My utmost condolences to your son's friends' family and to yours as well.
 
I cried earlier and I can no longer look at her pictures; Especially the gross one.

Zach you have my condolences and I am sorry how things ended. But like you said; Its not over. You still have beautiful kids that need you more than ever. Plus justice for AJ. She knew you were her dad.
 
Damarna said:
I work with as group of developmentally disabled/mentality ill adults. Tonight they asked why I looked angry - had they done anything wrong. I hadn't realized how deeply this has touched me.
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:(

Keep up the good work.

Eta: I know how it is. I work with kids, disabled and not. I HAVE to compartmentalize. For their sakes, and for me to adequately do my job. Somehow they always find a way to cheer me up without even trying. They have no idea about any of this wsing stuff I do. I don't want them to see me upset. So many times I "chalk it up" as best as possible, then come home and really dig in here.
 
bessie said:
Zach sent this text to Tricia today and gave his permission to post here.
Very hard. I was there when her body was loaded up and carried away. She wasn't alone. God was with my dad and I and we prayed on the road there. Websleuths helped me tremendously. Thank you. This isn't over. I'll be back online some time soon.
**Zach also wanted to stress that it is NOT 100% certain that the body is AJ.**
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I have only hugs for you, Zach. There are no words... No matter who was found today, she is lucky to have such a lovling person as you to escort her. Please take care of you.
 
Sorry to post so much tonight, but I have so much on my heart. Re: the WTKR interview with Zach: there you go, "divine intervention"...I can only say that MANY MANY prayers have been going up the last few weeks on behalf of Anjelica, Zach, and her sisters from you wonderful WSers. I believe we have made a difference in this search. I choose to believe that God did, indeed, bring this horrendous deed to light and if this is Anjelica's body, this is His way of making sure justice is served and possibly,( if charged and convicted), causing WH to be out of JH & these younger girls' lives before he can hurt them anymore.
 
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