Yes I agree. Even as a complete stranger I Struggle with this one because on one side I think of BB and what he has lost and it makes me angry and hateful. And then on the other side I find myself empathizing with the remaining family members that MB remains their son, brother, nephew, cousin, uncle. Most, if not all, of who will likely love him and forgive him for what he has done. And even more so IF this was associated with a medical or mental disorder.
Morning!
True, either way it's a life altering experience.
I have seen a few family members be able to forgive the murderer whether they were family members or total strangers.
When forgiveness has happened on occasion the basis for forgiveness was totally based on their strong faith in God.
Then I have seen many family members of murder victims who also were of a strong faith in God who believe whoever (stranger or family member) murdered their loved ones deserve to be punished fully, and held fully accountable under the laws of man.
So family members of deep faith have widely varying beliefs.
I've seen many crime shows with family members, who say years or even decades later, when another family member destroyed the ones they dearly love, they continue to struggle with forgiveness even though they know God believes they must forgive all others. It's common to also see them say even though they know they should they cant ever forgive them for what they have done.
They may personally forgive them or not, but also know justice must be served, which is totally left up to each prosecutor in each jurisdiction. The families know it's not their call to make.
I suppose it would make it easier for forgiveness to come at some point if the murderer is deemed to be mentally insane under judicial standards at the time they committed murder.
However it's still extremely rare for murderers to be declared mentally insane. Only a very tiny minority were actually mentally insane at the time it occurred.
Iirc the last stats I read of all murderers in all states collectively only 2 to 4 percent actually were found mentally insane. Although this defense is often the ones DT use, it's extremely rare for juries to agree.
At one time most states could vote only NG due to being mentally insane, but now several states have enacted new laws, my state included.
Now if the juries do believe the insanity defense they can vote Guilty, but insane.
The sentencing punishment is the same as it would be for anyone committing heinous murders if convicted, but the defendant is either locked up in the mental health part of the prison or they are afforded medication they may need by a prison mental health doctors.
We should know soon if the mental health professionals have either found him incompetent or competent to stand trial, and if they believe he was truly mentally insane at the time he murdered all three.
It shouldn't take long to know this answer, I dont think.
Jmho