Just something for us to toss around...and think about. If Joan and the BF had no intention of meeting until the following Friday, why did she leave her daughter? Doesn't make sense.....and is unbelievable.
I agree - something about that doesn't sound right. Why would she have left her daughter if the BF was "away". She couldn't be with him. I can understand that maybe Joan didn't want to be around her husband and that would account for her wanting to get away - at least from him.
Other reasons she may have wanted to leave: Threatened - didn't feel safe - was asked to leave - fighting
Maybe I've missed this and apologize if it's already been discussed. Does MC work? Or is he at home 24/7. Did MC have anyone supervise Joan's visits with the child when he wasn't around?
Mr Detective, today, said it was his "gut feeling" that not all of the information has been told by those previously interviewed (husband, BF and GF).
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If MC knew what the plans of Joan's BF was (being out of town). He knew that Joan would not be "missing" - since she didn't have a job. Who was going to be looking for her?
I would hope the BF's story has been verified with receipts/plane tickets/hotel rooms, etc. that he was not here when Joan went missing. Has the BF given permission for his cell phone account to be accessed to see where his phone was pinging?
So....the BF...how do we know that he didn't do something to her or HELP HER GO SOMEWHERE....he had 4 days to "cover it up" or 4 days to help her get away.
True - but if he's helping her to get away is he also supporting her? Playing Devil's Advocate here... It would be hard to do this without some kind of paper trail and a lot of expense. Where would she be staying? With some of his friends? At a motel? Are they using disposable/throw away phones to communicate? Who is paying for her meals? Is she working somewhere? How is she getting around wherever she is?
And what would the BF have to gain from this scenario? And how would Joan cope not being able to see her daughter?
Joan hated her name...she told my mother that two weeks before she went missing. The BF ... since Aug 2008 has referred to her as "Renee" (her middle name). She hated the name "Joan". Mr. Detective has said that this is typical of persons wanting a new identity.
I hate my first name too...and am not fond of my middle name either...but it has never caused me to want to change my identity or to seek a new name. I have several friends that also go by their middle names... It may be possible that Mr. Det. is right...but somehow I doubt it. At lease she liked the name Renee and just because she decides to use that doesn't mean anything.
Mr. Det was also very interested in the timeline that the girlfriend last talked to joan. Apparently, the GF has told Mr. Det something other than what she told me and my mother about the last time she spoke or had contact with Joan.
I'm sorry...I'm lost (have been on a staggering amount of pain meds for the past several days)... This GF...who is she? GF of MC or GF of Joan?
Mr. Det said they have received her cell records that show only numbers. Nu8mbers she called and received. She spoke with the BF several times the evening of Jan 24th from what the records show. She went missing on the 25th. (I know...the last I heard 5 days ago...they couldn't get the cell records. But mysteriously...this information comes out from Mr. Det). Do I trust this Det? I would love to see these records and call every single number on the list!
Sounds like a bit of game playing going on with Mr. Det. I'd def. make a call to the VA State Police...
They now have another detective searching her hard drive from work (apparently the detective handling the case can't do this per protocal...)...still waiting on the email records. mr. Det said the responding companies (Yahoo, gmail, etc) has 10 business days to get the info to the requestor. Today was day 9.
Mr. Det is also reviewing a video from a "store" from Jan 24-25 from Wildwood Rd to see if there is any info he can obtain from that.
Thanks again to all.....I appreciate all of you!
Let's hope something turns up on the computer. Mr. Det. probably doesn't have the ability to forensically examine the computer and this is why someone else from the dept. is doing it.
Thank you for sharing your information with us! I hope this situation will be resolved soon and in favor of Joan.