Trebor5591
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I watched the trial and I believe JD is such a troubled man who uses passive-aggressive tendencies, and so-called humor, to humiliate others. One example is when he called Mr Rottenborn Mr ROTTEN (pause) born. For someone whose lawyers pointed out how damaged he became over his own mother calling him One Eye, I found it especially degrading for JD to do the same thing in a court of law and then laugh about it and also to see others laughing along. For me, that showed his truest character for how stunted his personality is and how he subtly provokes others. For a man to call his wife the most degrading names like c**t and wh**re, destroy her clothing and wardrobe, write bizarre words on walls, destroy other people’s homes, hotel rooms and furniture, and on and on the evidence showed such turmoil, so many destructive, violent acts he pulled. Could any woman imagine being married to a man like that? His addictions, his sense of entitlement, his utter instability. Crazy-making! A person would have to be insane to go through life like that. Who would be able to sustain living in that environment? She might be better off to just find a way to pay him off and move on in life. So much better is waiting for her even if that means no more Hollywood. This is all MOO based on watching the trial because I didn’t know anything about either of them before. IMO.
This is just my opinion, and there may be some merit to what you say about JD - However his passive aggressive tendencies and his stunted personality, as you say, were not on trial. The trial was about AHs defamation of him by lying and claiming he beat her up, multiple times, which the jury determined to be false.
As far as AH deserving so much better--I am certain being married to JD was no picnic, with all of his drugs, but it appears she is the one who brought everything to an end through her own actions. Does she deserve better when she is the one destroying? Well, maybe she does, as do we all, but the tapes of her berating JD were disturbing to listen to. I caught not a glimpse of love in her. Frankly I would be surprised to see someone like her "move on" successfully, for she has built her life around her good looks and sex appeal, and she is no longer a hot young woman. As the movie producer said, she has very little "chemistry" in her relation to the Aquaman male star; she's actually appears to be a very cold fish in what I have seen of her on the big screen. I hope and pray she does turn her life around, but I have my doubts. MOO.
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