Yes, thank you everyone - all's well (kind of) - took my daughter to hosp. concerned about her 'tonsilitis' (her GP diagnosed this a dew days ago) - turns out she has mono, poor kid.
I honestly don't mean to sound as prickly as I sometimes do, and ofc anyone can discuss anything they please. Just, I do think TH is very unlikely to have DID. And if he did, his fight response would probably be overwhelmed by flight response a bit more often.. Here is not the space to go on about it too much.. but to the best of my knowledge, DID itself is a 'flight' response from trauma. It's nothing, in my experience and knowledge, at all like the 'Jeckyll & Hyde' thing you see on TV (or in reality, very often nothing much like the 'revolving door' personality thing, which I tend to eyeball a bit, seen too many attention seekers doing that to buy it on first look). I'm not really offended by the theory as much in a great deal of skepticism about it.
As to how a person can do something like this.. I was reading some threads here last night, cases from Aus regarding parents killing their own kids with long-term neglect, and with violence.. and I am thinking.. wondering.. HOW people can do this. The dad in the neglect case was on 160K a year, nice professional job he went to every day, and his home was literally waist-high in garbage and filth and excrement up the walls. He watched his wife create this, he watched his son be born (no hospital!) amid this, watched his child suffer from sickness and die in this... HOW? People are just capable of some terrifying things which make no sense at all, is the conclusion I can make sometimes.
Then there's the homicidal pedos and delusional psychotics, for whom killing is as easy as breathing. And there's more of those about than I can stand to ponder. Point being, sometimes killing doesn't involve anything more complex than an out of control temper (psychotic or otherwise) and the wrong "trigger" on the wrong day. And sometimes a killer can be the person who aslo is great at acting, and you'd never in a million years spot him...until the rock gets turned over.
Hobbs has a record of hard drug use, interpersonal violence, knee-jerk reaction incredibly serious assaults...and there's people with a lot less history than that who've committed heinous murders.
I would like nothing better than for this case to fully re-opened, and Hobbs and a few others put under a microscope. On that, I 100% agree with y'all.
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The way it's been left hanging is shameful. It guarantees NObody gets justice, or any answers.