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You can jump if you want , but that is NOT the face of neglect.
That is the face of purity, joy , innocence and delight.
As for the question of abuse victims becoming abusers, I feel I have seen it personally. My abuser, my 16 yr old uncle, began molesting me when I was 6. Many yrs later I found out that he had been abused as an altar boy by his priest, and then later, at 14 and 15 by his baseball coach. So I think he molested me and my cousin, to convince himself that he was 'not gay.'
I was sexually abused from age 6 until about 11. It impacted me greatly, and I acted out sexually at an early age. I was 'hypersexualized' by the abuse. So I initiated sexual interactions with other young kids because it was what I had 'learned' to do. In some ways I could be seen as an abuser myself, for initiating the sex play with other young kids. They were my own age and sometimes a yr or 2 younger. :cry: That made me feel so guilty when I dealt with it in counseling.
I would hope if a teen was prescribed by a GP he would be referred. He presented as a fairly well rounded Teen. Involved in sports. Friends. Engaged in life. I wonder if his Parents noticed his detachment and assumed he was just depressed. Was he simply placating his Parents? Points to ponder.
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You can jump if you want , but that is NOT the face of neglect.
That is the face of purity, joy , innocence and delight.
Well most GP will prescribe them, which I totally disagree with. Everyone should be seeing a psychiatrist or an nurse practitioner at a psych practice if they need meds. They are specialized and know best.
Yet there is still a stigma attached to that... Which probably prevents people from getting effective treatment. GP should NOT be giving out rxn for psych meds.
And a lot of times the victim becomes an abuser of themselves through drugs, alcohol, food, sex, etc.You are right Katy. This happens ( I don't have the stats) victims do in fact sometimes become the abusers if therapy is not made available and sometimes even if they have gone for therapy.
Sometimes, the victim may become a physical, emotional or verbal abusers if not sexual.
I think the interview was the 'aha' moment when he realized he was up against a competitor with more weight.
He had been known to be shy ''off the mat'' and was ''freakishly'' strong. He wanted to win at all costs obviously.
He was a whimpering mess because either he is a bully and finally met a potentially bigger contender (LE) or he had used that manipulation so easily and duped and won in the past.
jmho
View attachment 56808
You can jump if you want , but that is NOT the face of neglect.
That is the face of purity, joy , innocence and delight.
Dual Diagnosis are Mentally Challenged with Psychiatric Issues. Some are sex offenders. Not all. Whole different ballgame with the laws. Some good some not so good. Some of our Clients have more Psychiatric issues than challenged. So we get the whole spectrum. Having said that my former sex offender Clients will never be ever able to re offend. They will be under 24 hr. supervision until they die. Currently I am working with some difficult "issues" explosive rage etc etc. I will be following the Noelle Paquette case Mach 90. My Daughter and her Husband were running one road over when poor Noelle was being murdered. They are marathon runners. Who else who be running on New year Eve. I plan to attend that case. Thank You for you quires always happy to answer.Ugh, let's not forget "furries" that come up here on WS. I had no idea what that was until the case of Noelle Paquette (need to check for an update in her case...) (Furries are people who dress up in furry costumes; I'll leave it at that.)
Can you expand more on the term "dual diagnosis" sex offenders? TIA
And a lot of times the victim becomes an abuser of themselves through drugs, alcohol, food, sex, etc.
I hear you but it happened twice?This might not be a popular viewpoint here, but re: him yawning, I suspect this was involuntary, that he really might have been extremely exhausted. He stated on SM, iirc, that he didn't sleep much; mix this with everything happening--it was quite a week for him. jmo (I also stated earlier that I believe that when he was staring off, snotty, crying, pacing, that I think this was the moment where it must have hit him that his life was over. My opinion is that these actions were not necessarily acting in order to lay the bricks for an insanity defense.) JMO
View attachment 56808
You can jump if you want , but that is NOT the face of neglect.
That is the face of purity, joy , innocence and delight.