That is so.true and I'm.definitely jaded by my experince bit there is one thing I learned about our so.called legal system...as I'm sure u are aware ....it s unfair and does not aways completely protect women or.children. I also have seen malicious reports written about me due to my ex lieing to cps and the prosecutor where we lived.. bit I was lucky to.have a good attorney to bring about all the evidence that showed he lied. I never did drugs never had a record ...graduated top of my class from a great college ...he had nothing on me so he made up stuff in rake documents. He even showed prosecutors a fake custody order before we had even stepped foot in s court room!!!!
So...maybe I'm not believing all these documents about Julia until I see more evidence. But I will play nice and try to see SM as a victim.
I believe you when you say that your experiences were horrible, and thank you for sharing them.
Respectfully, I think you are allowing your own experiences to somewhat cloud your judgement in one critical respect. You apparently see a similarity here between what occured in your life and what has happened in this case. You might well be correct. However....
The person in this case who, like you, fought and bled for the kids, the person willing to do damn near anything for them, the person who was lied about and villified and who spent month after month trying to get anyone to listen, just like you did....
Is DAD.
He's the guy who has been out there all alone, just like you, trying to save his kids.
Thank you, Chris.
Dear PolyGraph, let me tell you, I have had several cases like yours. It is true that these things occur with regularity in the family law court system. But in my experience, it happens to men just as often, and if we are talking about false allegations of abuse, it is more often women who falsely accuse men.
What I have seen tends to show that when men falsely accuse, they accuse the ex of mental problems but when women falsely accuse, they tend to accuse men of abuse. Both types of accusations are present here,
but while we have no direct evidence that Solomon was, in fact, abusive (which he may have been), we do, in fact, have direct evidence that Julia was mentally ill. So logic sorts it out in my book.
Finally, it is possible for a man to have been abusive to a woman who was also completely insane and/or evil, who murdered her own child for reasons unrelated to any abuse she suffered. Sometimes like attracts like. Sometimes bad and evil and/or sick people attract bad and evil and/or sick mates.
But, Solomon's potential abuse of Julia has not been connected to Sky's disappearance. In fact, LE has stated that they have no reason to believe that Sky is not "in [their] back yard." They have taken their investigation across the nation and around the world (their words), but have focused their investigation now on this area. I think that speaks volumes. Especially since there is no indication that the investigators handling this case are anything but consummate professionals, experienced and passionate about finding our darling, little boy.