I know a lot of people dont share this opinion but I feel so sorry for GA and CA, they have been caught up in a devastating situation. See my Uncle has done unspeakable things to my family, he has stolen the family silver, which we never got back, he has been in jail and bailed out by my grandmother for years. Once he stole a motorcycle and stored it at my then 79 yo grandmothers home and she almost got arrested for it! And still she allowed him to sleep on her couch, steal her money etc. She stuck up for him until the moment she was old enough that we could take over and put a restraining order in place. This is a woman who worked hard, went to church, she was successful, and still allowed her son to cripple her. I dont know how or why this happens but it has been a mystery for our family and because of my experience with this I do believe that GA and CA are sick as she was/is. We feared night after night that he would kill her and just before we got the reigns he finally threatened it. It does happen! and it happens to middle class upstanding families!