ohiogirl
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I get the feeling that what makes Lee and Casey so close is the way they view their parents....i.e. mom is so crazy...and controlling and on and on. Dad's a loser can't keep a job, gambling, lying etc. We are so much more evolved than our parents....etc etc.
I say this b/c I get the distinct impression that LA is actually fed up with CA. As I child, I thought my dad was aweful. worthless...not b/c he was but for the lone reason that's what mom always said. As an adult my dad and I built a relationship(my p's are still married fyi) that for many reason was never developed early on. I used to worship my mom and thought my dad was clueless and no fun. Oh how wrong I was, I had to grow up to see that my dad is the normal, sane on. Mom's the one with issues...who'da thunk it? certainly not me asm a child, she molded me to adore her and shun my dad. My point is this: PERCEPTION IS EVERYTHING especially to a growing child(LA) I think something dramatically changed his perception of Mom and Dad in a big way and perhaps LA is done with his MOTHER'S bs, recognizes how controlling CA is and how much she contributed to their dysfunction. He and ICA may feel guilty for not giving dad a break all those years(I know I did), this may be the first time LA is able to look at his dad as a person rather than the incompitant, PIA that mom has been discribing him as. Perhaps he sees the effect CA has had on not only himself and his sister but his father too, maybe he blames his mother for scewing them all up, maybe he's so fed up with CA, after all a life has been lost and it doesn't look like LA holds ICA responsible. Maybe LA decided a while back that he would NOT be part of or allow his beloved mommy to belittle and destroy GA anymore. thoughts?
BTW: I derived this theory from a few simple words...."I was told to let it go, so that's what I did"[/B] I felt sarcasim in his answer. as in, mom told me to let it go so like a good little boy(and like so many times in the past) I did what I was told. IMO LA is not gonna be that obidient child any longer. let's hope
I'm glad you reminded me of that. He sounded just like my son would when his feelings were hurt. I am thinking that LA really WAS hurt when he was told to let it go and he did. I am also thinking that now he regrets this in a huge way. He may be thinking that if he had been around more, taken more of an interest, been the uncle and big brother, that all of this would be different. Perhaps at the point of KC's pregnancy he washed his hands of the whole family because he was shut out and feels now he failed to protect his sister and niece like he should have. This is all my speculation, but it makes perfect sense to me. One more thought on his testimony today, does anyone think that maybe KC intimated to him that GA had molested her and he was afraid that GA WAS the father? Do you think he maybe was going to say that today, even though he never believed it, and just couldn't. Because he realizes now that she never told anyonet he truth? Just thinking out loud.
About him talking to JB, I thought it was strange when he came forth to be relieved of the rule of sequestration so that he could come to the trial and then he onl showed up once, or maybe twice. It seems to me there was a reason this was done after the trial had started and there was something that he was definitely supposed to be there for on the day he did show up.
hmmm. I will have to go back and figure out what day he was there and see what was going on that day. I have a lot going on this weekend, but maybe I can look back on Sunday. jmo of course:innocent: