That's what this article I found brought out and some other interesting points. It said that during the time the investigators were at the house on Christmas Day John and Patsy never showed any affection toward one another or tried to comfort each other. Patsy just set in a chair sobbing no more than 15 feet above where her dead child was.
They had quite an entourage.
Why would Ramsey decide his wife needed her own lawyers?
http://bardachreports.com/articles/v_19971000.html
Detectives Harmer and Hickman interviewed [victim advocates] Jedamus and Morlock at police headquarters.
The Ramseys probably didnt know that their conversations with the advocates were not confidential or privileged by law. Jedamus and Morlock were obligated to tell the detectives everything they could remember, since they worked for - and were partly compensated by - the police department.
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Morlock remembered that John Ramsey had cried but tried to control his emotions even when he was so distraught that he could barely speak.
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Merlock told the detectives that she had seen John and Patsy sitting together in the dining room holding each other and talking. PMPT; p. 325
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More in the same vein:
Fleet White told the police that when the Lafayette branch of John Fernie's bank opened, Fernie went there to see about collecting the ransom money from his own account. During this time Ramsey was distressed, White said; the pain he observed in John was unmistakable. He'd never seen Ramsey this way, at the end of his rope. "He just put his head in his hands and cried and shook. PMPT; p. 45
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I spoke with Patsy Ramsey for about one minute. Patsy was visibly shaken, distraught, and crying. She was curled up and sitting on a chair. I informed Patsy the Federal Bureau of Investigation was meeting with members of the Boulder Police Department and we would do everything possible to get her daughter back safely. I cannot remember exactly what Patsy said to me. She only said a couple words. She was too distraught to talk. INJUSTICE; R. Whitson; p. 10
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DIANE SAWYER: (voice-over) His name is Dr. Francesco Beuf. He was JonBenet's pediatrician. He talked to me by phone about whether Mrs. Ramsey's grief was real.
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Dr. FRANCESCO BEUF: Oh, for God's sake, she was as devastated as anyone could be by a terrible loss like that. They called me to provide some tranquilizers for her. She was absolutely shattered by this.
DIANE SAWYER: And Mr. Ramsey?
Dr. FRANCESCO BEUF: He looked absolutely devastated. To me, they were the most appropriate reactions in the world. God knows, I wouldn't know how I'd react if one of my children had been murdered, particularly in such horrible circumstances. He paced and paced and paced. He and I went out for a walk for a while that night. It's the wreckage of two human beings. ABC PRIMETIME LIVE (10:00 pm ET) SEPTEMBER 10, 1997 Transcript # 97091003-j08 T
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