Sorry to sound cold, but I think there obligated, your son commited 2 brutal homicides and kidnapped a teen girl for 90 days. He described the ordeal the way one would describe the frustration of waiting in line at Arby’s for your order, realizing u have extra sandwich and bolting.... calm matter of fact.... no big deal.
Your neighbor spoke with certainty of foster care. When was the foster care?? Early childhood ... late adolescence??
Did birth parents bail, or did you get frustrated to wits end and both gave up on boys...
If you adopted kids and put heart into them and one simply sociopath from day one.. your not to blame.
If y’all were scared or worried and knew he’d gotten hold of a mossberg shotgun, should have gotten it back.
21 yr old booted from marines living by himself in 5 bedroom house is odd period... he wasn’t throwing Keggers, just reading army survival books.
If your quality parents and have waterpark photos / homework momentos and stuff like that ... say so.. show us... sorry but this hiding BS there hurting too crap is garbage..
They know why marines didn’t work out, and they know on foster care,