Who called KZ bad for seeing other women? I'm not recalling that topic.
The issue here is that we can't arrive at a clear picture of KZ's relationship with Kelly.
Apparently, Kelly referred to KZ as her bf. Women don't usually do that unless they believe a guy is their bf.
What's especially distasteful is that KZ diminished his relationship with Kelly to someone who came over to his apartment
three times a week to do cocaine. How is it that two people can define their relationship so vastly different?
"Dating" doesn't indicate casual friends or drug buddies to me (as KZ describes their relationship).
Kelly believed they were in a dating relationship per her mother.
No matter what they did together, if they got together three times a week consistently and KZ took her out to dinner, that describes dating to me.
For KZ to tell the police that Kelly came over several times a week to snort cocaine (making it sound as if that fully describes their relationship)* allows me to despise him even more than I already do due to his enjoyment of *advertiser censored* that involves children.
So where does Zocco's other "real" girlfriend fit into this picture?
She probably thinks she's 'dating' KZ too.
How does she describe or rate her status in KZ's life when, obviously, he misrepresents himself (considering he's alive and is able to speak).
So, who is your gf Kris? Will the "real" gf please stand up?
In this comment you're stating that regardless of what they did together, you consider the actions dating, and find his description of their "relationship" despicable. You're also questioning how he treats women (with references to his previously mentioned real girlfriend in quotes). I do note, however, that you go on to wonder (I snipped to save space) where the people defending him are.
Just wondering, though, where did you read KZ took her out to dinner? The
articles all say they were
out at the
bars, and while
the one LE focused on is also a restaurant, you indicated that the
restaurant closed at 10, while the bar remained open. Going to the bars is quite a bit different from going to dinner, JMO.
I thought I offered a plausible explanation in the same post you responded too.
Kelly probably grew tired of waiting for their relationship to grow (become more serious) and began to realize it probably never would.
Therefore, in her own way, she was backing away by trying to meet new guys.
Sometimes it takes awhile, when you're hoping for one outcome, to accept that it probably isn't going to happen.
If KZ really was an upstanding guy, educated with a $100,000 salary, what woman
(who had an attraction and clicked with him) wouldn't hope the relationship would eventually lead somewhere?
That's normal imo.
A person can think they love someone but, if the love isn't returned, realize they must take steps towards moving on.
I'm suggesting Kelly may have entered that phase in the relationship.
In this reply to one of my comments you're reasoning Kelly's actions as understandable, even though they amount to seeing other men. In the comment above you questioned how KZ had (in your opinion) multiple girlfriends, and implied that each likely thought they were the "real" girlfriend. Yet here you're saying that, despite KD dating other guys, KZ was the "real" relationship for her. I can
certainly understand your views on KZ regarding the CP and everything, but to have a different stance on what is essentially KZ and KD doing the same thing (given we lack any direct knowledge as to how either of them personally viewed the relationship recently) seems a bit biased. Especially given that, if KD viewed a relationship with KZ as real, her actions essentially amount to cheating.
Please note I'm not attacking you or your views, just explaining my thoughts on what you've said (as I've understood them), nor am I trying to offend you. I am
only explaining regarding the first quote why I had come to that conclusion, and I certainly apologize for any misunderstanding on my part. Forums are text, and sometimes what we mean to say doesn't always come out clearly when we lose vocal inflection, and it's incredibly difficult to type something out in a way that couldn't be taken the wrong way.
Also, I want to state
emphatically that I'm in no way supporting, or defending KZ. I'm simply trying to view things without any sort of bias, especially given that POI does not mean convicted.