Do you believe that CPS will offer these children back to the same people that couldnt even provide pictures of Aliayah? Thats like feeding them to the wolves. Im sorry and dont mean to be disrespectful, but I pray they can't ever touch them again.
Maybe someone here more familiar with CPS can offer you some advice or information regarding family visitation and if that's possible.
I agree that children should be able to have some contact with the positive family members in their life. They need to know they are wanted and loved.
Vickie- Did you find out what night this week you're going on Bring Them Home Now?
Do you believe that CPS will offer these children back to the same people that couldnt even provide pictures of Aliayah? Thats like feeding them to the wolves. Im sorry and dont mean to be disrespectful, but I pray they can't ever touch them again.
No I have not yet. My daughter came to visit this weekend and I had a baby shower for her. Therefore I havent really got to speak to bros. much. Hope to schedule it tomorrow for some time this week.
Do you believe that those that are looking for Aliayah and wanting the other childen should not be allowed to see them, or have a relationship with them, or try to bring them into our homes and love and protect them , just because their mother is a piece of uncaring ****. That is just cold.
Are you saying that because we did not know what was going on in the parents care we don't deserve to be a part of their lives.
Are you judging everyone in the family as you would Lena and Jo Ann.:furious:
Every family most likely has a bad apple in their family,some worse then others.You can not punish the whole family for the actions of one.Those children have lost enough IMO they do not need to lose any more.Being with decent,loving family I believe is so much better for them all.
Do you believe that those that are looking for Aliayah and wanting the other childen should not be allowed to see them, or have a relationship with them, or try to bring them into our homes and love and protect them , just because their mother is a piece of uncaring ****. That is just cold.
Are you saying that because we did not know what was going on in the parents care we don't deserve to be a part of their lives.
Are you judging everyone in the family as you would Lena and Jo Ann.:furious:
I didnt mean to make you "furious".....I was just offering my opinion, even if it isnt the popular one here, it is the popular opinion in the community.
IMO it isn't only her mother that is uncaring. As for not knowing what was goin on in the home, I thought you had never met her? And you have agreed that your family has lied to you in the past, so you know that isn't helping to find Aliayah, so why waste your time or energy on them? I have nearly begged for someone to talk to the neighbor across the street and to find out who the Christine Wiser is-and it seems like still noone has done that. I will be speaking with the FBI tomorrow to see about organizing a search party and other things that could be done by caring citizens.
Always remember Vickie, this isn't about you or I -its about Aliayah.
Sounds like congratulations are in order!:congrats:
Actually, I'm gonna be Grandma twice !!!!!!!!!
Both of my daughters are preggos !!!!!!!!!!!!
Oldest gal 31 due Dec.12
Youngest gal 29 due Jan. 5th (her birthday !!)
Both having BOYS yeah me !!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you.
I just pray they are all healthy.
I am cold? ...How many days has Aliayah been missing, Vickie? I know that they are your family-I understand that, but when you continue to enable JoAnn who continues to enable RL and LL -how do you think that is helping these children? Maybe I am not typing exactly what I mean. ...
LL, RL and JoAnn have made NO effort to help find Aliayah. ANYONE who helps them are not helping find Aliayah. And if you (for instance) are helping JoAnn who in turn helps LL and RL ---CPS will not ever give you custody.
Have you had a chance to talk to the neighbor yet?
I'm standing right beside you CJM. Your passion, honesty and willingness to speak out stirred my heart.
I feel for VB and her brothers. They are doing what they can in terms of searching for Aliayah and speaking out, that is admirable. But as you said CJ, their vision may be clouded by their allegiance to Joann.
I'm not sure what her role in all this is, but I do strongly feel she is covering for Lena. It appears she has done this all her life, and it's why Lena is the way she is today. Enabling in a situation such as this means complicit in my book.
Trust me, I know what I'm talking about. I've been in a very tough spot with my oldest son. I never stopped loving him, but he made his bed and he suffered the consequences. It would have been easier and far less painful for me to be an enabler, but that would not have helped him in the long run.
Vickie, this thread may not be about you, or me, or anyone else on this board but this post is about YOU. I can't just sit back and read anymore without saying something. I also have a missing family member (my sister) and I'm not trying to go off topic on here-I just want you to know that I know some of what you're feeling. You and your brothers are doing whatever is needed to help Aliayah. I know personally, that there are times you will do just about anything to keep that feeling of helplessness away, even if it means helping "enablers". You and your brothers should not be made to feel guilty or defensive about that. You just keep doing what you need to do because no one, even if they've had to go through this misery themselves, will fully understand what it feels like for you. You, Aliayah and your family are in my prayers.
LL & RL sure didn't have the proper sleeping arrangements. 5 kids & 2 adults in a 2 BR house ?? Pregnant w/twins so it would've been 7 & 2 in a 2 BR. Personally, I wondered about the fire hazard of that many ppl in a 2 BR. Doesn't WV/Weston have fire codes for such things ?Vickie-
Does Joann have enough bedrooms for 7 children? CPS will not release the children to a family member unless they meet all requirements....and one of them is proper sleeping arrangements.