I know what you mean!! And I think we're all in agreement here-it just doesn't get any easier to go on the emotional rollercoaster these cases take you on!! Many posters from the Caylee forum haven't made it back-hopefully they will cause I miss em!!
I'm one who really hasn't been back. I'll check a random thread now and then but I stay away from most of it because I don't want to hear about anything that family says. I refused to watch the Dr. Phil interview, etc. I don't want to give them anymore attention in the hopes they will fade away and not make another thin dime off baby Caylee.
But, I still think of Caylee. And I'd be on the threads in a second if I learned that some form of justice was happening to the "mother of the year".
From my perspective, these are the latest events from my end of the block (Homewood)
Wednesday - drained the pond. River lower like they shut it off at the dam. Volunteer searchers still coming through.
Thursday - Still some volunteer searchers coming through,but much less. Helicopter flying back and forth most of the day. River level back up.
Friday - Only professional searchers coming through the area with dogs. Divers searching around swing bridge. DHHR picks up children. Mom gets a lawyer.
Saturday - Quiet. NO searchers in the area all day. They call off volunteer searchers.
JMO - They found something Friday, maybe by the swing bridge. Why would they drain the pond and then go a few feet further down the river and dive? Maybe had an idea what they were looking for and where it was? Could they have even found Baby A, removed her from the area and are just not announcing it? IMO, that is possible. LE has been tight-lipped from the first, they seem to like to keep things around here and handle it locally, but just could not in this instance. The town is very quiet and frankly, we want that baby found, but we also want our peace and quiet back. If they announce that they have evidence of foul play or they found a body, here comes the media, there goes peace and quiet. Also, small town, everyone knows what goes on. How many people are going to be walking through the areas where the officials have looked. What if they need to go back and gather more evidence? People have gladly let them come through to search, but curiosity seekers wanting to tromp across your yard is not going to go over very well. Arguments will break out or they will be calling and complaining to LE. I think eventually we will find out what happened, but only after things quiet down and there is not so much focus on the town and the case.
BBM. I've heard this speculation in some other cases now and then in the past. It is an interesting thought but, IMO, this would never, ever, ever happen. In fact, I don't think it has ever happened before.
LE is under incredible pressure to resolve this case. There would be no reason for them to hide finding a body, from the public. And if they did, defense attorneys would have a field day talking about the possibility of hiding evidence, manufacturing evidence, etc.
But how do we know there's even a lack of pictures? Maybe the ones we've seen are the only decent closeups that show her face well. For all we know, there could be lots of other pictures that are side views or from far enough away that you just can't see her face.
I'm confused. We know the mom doesn't really appear to utilize her facebook page much. We also know that the family is not speaking to the media hardly at all. So how do we know there aren't a gazillion pics of Aliayah among her family? My feelings of concern come not from the possibility that the family didn't take pictures of their baby, but the fact that they don't seem to care enough about Aliayah to be on the news every night, begging for her return, showing home videos, publishing every photo they have of her, etc.
I know there are people who act like that who are not guilty, like the mom of Emmett Trapp, who was found dead after wandering three days in the desert, poor baby. She called NG and begged, during the time her baby was missing, that his story not be discussed, which many, including me, found very odd. But, she had nothing to do with his disappearance, except that she was napping when he took off.
So, there are cases when the innocent refrain from talking to media. But, IMO, that's more rare and there are specific reasons (in Emmett's case, I really feel the mother was freaked out and felt that if her kid's case was publicized, that would bring the reality of his precarious situation home. Kind of like once you see your kid's picture flash on the screen, you realize the horrible truth that many missing kids never come home and yours may not either). But, most of the families that act like this, from what I have seen in the past, do so when they are hiding something. Time will tell.