I agree. I watched the hour long police body-cam video and saw BL as trying very hard to be composed and collected in front of the LE and to give his best charming persona…. as so many sociopaths do. (I’m a psych nurse and have seen so many of them!)
1. I first watched the video from the POV that BL is totally normal, totally innocent, and just mentally, emotionally and physically exhausted from Gabby’s mood swings, her having OCD (her words), that she was emotionally upset, was having meltdowns etc. I gave him credit for being “so calm” after spending all those days and nights together.
2. Then I watched again. This time watching his behavior from the POV that he is a narcissistic, controlling, fake-charming sociopath…. and as if he probably did something to Gabby.
The second watching, and with the opinion (MOO) that he may have serious mental health issues (and/or a psychological or psychiatic diagnosis…. apparently GP told a friend “he hears voices”) won out far above the vibes I got from my first watching the video.
Again…. MOO