There’s a well known saying in the legal world - “reasonable minds may differ”.
Two people, presented with the identical facts, are going to have different interpretations, and may reach different conclusions. We are all individuals, with varied backgrounds and life experiences. We’re going to make different assumptions based on what we’ve seen in our lifetimes and what we think we would do in a particular situation.
Example:
a fact: BL’s parents canceled the first camping trip.
Now, it’s perfectly reasonable to draw the conclusion that BL’s parents must have known he was coming home, and that’s why they canceled.
But… its’s just as reasonable to draw the conclusion that they canceled because of the weather. Hurricane or tropical depression or whatever you want to call it - the weather wasn’t nice during those few days. They weren’t going off in a nice, spacious RV - to some distant location, involving months of planning. They had a small popup. They were going to a coastal location. If this was me - I absolutely would have canceled - while certain others may have kept the reservation.
Both are completely reasonable and logical reasons for canceling, based on the information we actually have. But some people brush this off as inconsequential - while to others, it’s iron-clad evidence that the parents were complicit.
I honestly enjoy reading how people interpret the few facts we actually have - I get totally different perspectives that I may not have already considered. I definitely form my own opinions, but regardless of what I think happened, I *always* try to keep an open mind.
there seems to be so much bickering - people trying to convince others that their own interpretation is correct, or putting others down for the conclusions they’ve reached. I understand this is an emotionally charged situation, but I think it would really help the discussion if we could keep it positive - and if we could all be open to different perspectives. It would also cut down on the pace of the thread, and make it more enjoyable to read