http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/06/n...-resented-her-employers-police-say.html?_r=1&
I have seen the contrary, until the 11-5-12 story. can you point me to news reports that depict this woman as having been dissatisfied with her job for awhile?
For what it's worth, I have never known of a family to actually go to their employee's homeland and stay with their family. To me, it appears the Krims treated her very, very well. I flat disbelieve that their were fights or obvious tension between the Krims and YO. This family seem like people who go above and beyond to make sure the person taking care of their kids is treated like family, appreciated and paid well.
The Krim's also appear to be people who adore their children and who would never leave their kids with an angry nanny who just fought with them.
Further, some reports appear to show that the nanny wanted more hours and was given more hours by the Krims, just to help her financially. I saw zero to suggest she was overworked and zero to suggest that she wanted more money without having to work for it. Instead, it seems she had limited hours with the Krims, thus they tried to help her by referring her out and also giving her more hours. I just don't get any sense that this was a truly disgruntled person having problems with her employers. Zero facts point to such a work climate or issues between them leading up to the massacre, with the exception of the just leaked comments that do not include context. In other words, even if she is making such comments now, there is no proof that it's true. LE has already apparently stated there is no evidence of any fight, IIRC.
Everything I have seen about this family points to people with class and integrity. I am 100% confident they paid her well.
I agree wholeheartedly with everything you have said except one and that's a really big one. I 100% disagree that most mentally ill people are devoid of feelings for others. With all due respect, no way, no how.
Some people with personality disorders, such as narcissistic, anti-social or borderline persons have such issues and sometimes, people in a manic stage of bi polar disorder, have a hard time focusing on how others may feel. And of course, someone in the midst of a full blown psychotic episode is not thinking about much that is rational, especially how another person may be feeling.
But other than those few exceptions,
mentally ill people have the same capacity to feel empathy and the same sensitivities as anyone else.