jandkmom
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I don't understand why many people seem to feel that compassion for the A's and Caylee are mutually exclusive of each other. They aren't IMO.
I don't much feel sorry for KC. It's obvious that whatever happened to Caylee (and I believe she (KC) is guilty of at the very least: neglect and abuse, OR, at worst: premeditated murder), the loss of her baby did not seem to bother her even for a moment. She did whatever she did to Caylee and then partied on in apparent celebration. She brought whatever she gets on herself.
When it comes to GA & CA, I do feel compassion for them. Their family may be dysfunctional, many are. It's not their fault -- IMHO -- what happened to their granddaughter. KC is an adult. She had choices and she made them. There are children of dysfunctional families that grow up to be fine human beings. There are also children of wonderful families that grow up to be criminals. Maybe not the majority of the time, but it does happen. I bet we can all think of example of this.
While GA & CA have done some misguided and confusing things, I don't know what I'd do in their shoes, probably have a nervous breakdown. They love their daughter and that is not wrong. They love their granddaughter and have tragically lost her forever. Though we all hurt about the loss of little Caylee, IMO we cannot feel a fraction of what they're going through. Whatever mistakes they've made in handling this situation, I'm not able to rejoice or enjoy any added suffering they incur. It seems many so many do just that.
I feel the lawsuit is frivolous and is about the attorney wanting publicity and attention and his "15 minutes of fame" as George said during the deposition. Others feel the lawsuit is valid, and that is certainly their right. They may be correct and I may be wrong.
What doesn't seem fair to me though, is the public spectacle that's being made of it by it being publicly broadcast (I know it's FL's law). Also, the nature of some of the questions the lawyer asked are akin to rubbing salt in an open wound IMO. When they've said repeatedly she is NOT the Zenaida!
The awful pain GA is in seemed very apparent during the deposition/questioning, to me anyway.
Whether or not one agrees with lawsuit, how does feeling/expressing compassion for the A's having tragically lost their granddaughter forever and, for all practical purposes, lost their daughter forever too, equal not caring about what happened to Caylee or have forgetting about her????
I don't understand this reasoning? ---If it is ever shown that George and/or Cindy had something to do with Caylee's disappearance and/or death, then I will feel differently, just the opposite in fact.
Unless that happens, I don't think it's fair to say that because they still love their daughter they don't care about Caylee or arent standing up for her. Nor do I think it's fair/correct to say that because someone can empathize with the As for having suddenly had their whole lives turned upside down tragically and irreversibly, that person does not care about Caylee and is letting her down.
Why do so many people seem to consider the two mutually exclusive? Why does one cancel out the other?
I also believe that Caylee would be very sad for her grandparents. I think she would want them to receive comfort and to be treated fairly and with mercy as always -- JMHO only.
For the Record: I have not in any way forgotten about Caylee! What happened to that poor baby was and unspeakable, senseless tragedy. I hope and pray that justice is accomplished regarding any and all involved in harming that beautiful, innocent, trusting little child. At the same time, my heart goes out to the As.
I use to feel sorry for the A's and then I realized that they will lie or do whatever means possible to get out of any situation that they do not like. GA and CA cannot say that the woman being deposed is or is not ZFG because they never talked to or met the one that Casey refers to. Yes, I believe that the one in the lawsuit is not her because I don't believe that there ever was a nanny, but as long as the A's choose to state that there was a "Zanny the Nanny", then this woman could be thought to be her more than anyone because she was at Sawgrass apartments within two days of Casey being at Sawgrass. I believe that when the A's and Casey admit there was never a "Zanny the Nanny", then the lawsuit would be dropped. Go Morgan and Morgan!!!!