2010.06.28 - Kyron's Dad files for divorce and restraining order

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My response in blue above.

You are right. But again, the question was why would an innocent TH give up custody of her child (and contact for the foreseeable future). I do understand what you're saying. I get the future jury pool problems, etc. But I don't look at things the way criminal law attorneys do. I think crim law attorneys view these cases as doing whatever is necessary to keep their clients out of prison, assuming that there is some guilt. They don't care whether their clients are innocent or not. And they don't care what their clients give up to keep out of prison.
I think differently. I know litigating parents very, very well. I know the lengths they will go to, to keep their kids. It is more important to them than anything, usually. So you have competing interests - possible prison or the child. I know what choice a defense attorney would make but I also know what choice an innocent mom of a toddler would make.
It's not that easy to prove a capital case that's based on circumstantial evidence. Unless there is some merit to it.

Wow, thank you, that's a really striking thought.

I keep wondering why Houze isn't working on Terrri's image at all (or hiring someone to work on it, or however that works). Because the bolded statement is pretty much the conclusion that would be naturally drawn without any evidence to the contrary. There is only circumstantial evidence as far as we know, and an innocent Terri would know for a fact that there could only ever BE circumstantial evidence against her, as there would be no physical evidence if she were guilty. So to weigh the loss of her baby against the potential for a circumstantial case to go to trial - and lose, and be convicted - and to find the potential for being convicted greater than the prospect of losing her baby? It just "looks" guilty, even if she isn't. Her attorney is smart and experienced, so he knows this fact, and yet isn't doing anything (short of keeping her absolutely quiet) to tilt the balance. It's very odd. Could he be planning to plea bargain, so that her public image would be irrelevant anyway?


Page 7 last paragraph:
"it can be assumed that husband knows or should surmise that whoever paid Mr. Houze (which happened after the parties seperated) had no intent to benefit husband by that payment). <<<< find this odd, still deciphering it.

"The court should be aware that, after Husband filed his motion for suit money, Mr. Houze and Wife's divorce attorney met with Husband's lawyer. At that meeting, they represented, as officers of the court, that the amount of money allegedly paid to Mr. Houze was inaccurate, and that a third party or parties paid for Mr. Houze's attorney fees. Wife's lawyers also represented that the money was neither a gift to Wife nor a loan" (pg. 3)

If this were a normal divorce, wouldn't that be all that was required? What more would they need? It wasn't hers and isn't his?

Question: If, instead of sharing Houze's fee with KH, since Houze was retained while they were still married, could KH then end up being solely responsible for Houze's fees? IE: "look we gave the money back, now I owe him XYZ, and that is a marital liability"

If it were a news outlet, wouldn't they want their 'pay' back by now? Exclusive interviews, ect?

The bolded blue part had me thinking. I didn't understand the language in Houze's statement when he said it wasn't a gift in the traditional sense of the word. Yet I can't think of a way to define gift that DOESN'T fit the payment of a service on someone's behalf. What is it when you give someone a service and don't ask for them to repay it? Feels rather gifty to me.
 
Detectives with the Multnomah County Major Crimes Team shared the landscaper's account with Kyron's father, Kaine Horman, last weekend, prompting him to leave the house June 26 with the couple's 19-month-old daughter.

Yes, the article doesn't say that MCSO gave the media that info, but it does say the above, which, must have come from Kaine telling them the info. So if Kaine's not lying, then the MCSO shared the info with him. Correct?
I think that is accurate, that "the Multnomah County Major Crimes Team shared the landscaper's account with Kyron's father, Kaine ...".

I think the Major Crimes Team has some members from the County Sheriff's Office, and also has other members from other police departments, etc.
So, when it is convenient, they are treated as a unit apart from other law enforcement entities. And, theoretically operates separately from the Sheriff's Office. I don't know who funds the Major Crimes Team.
 
I think that is accurate, that "the Multnomah County Major Crimes Team shared the landscaper's account with Kyron's father, Kaine ...".

I think the Major Crimes Team has some members from the County Sheriff's Office, and also has other members from other police departments, etc.
So, when it is convenient, they are treated as a unit apart from other law enforcement entities. And, theoretically operates separately from the Sheriff's Office. I don't know who funds the Major Crimes Team.

Aha, that may be the answer, the Multnomah Major Crimes Team is not necessarily the Multnomah County Sherriffs Offce, so the MCSO denies the sharing. Interesting.
 
We have been over this ground before. I believe there was a letter from the D.A. supporting the RO mentioned in the "withdrawal of sealing" motion. that's how we felt the information was confirmed by LE.
 
I really think that KH and his attorney did not think any abatement would be granted. I think that's why they went ahead and dropped the contempt action. The whole point of the RO and the contempt motion, IMHO IANAL opinion, was to get TH to talk and so far it hasn't happened. This case is sooo interesting because of all the twists and turns, but the whole issue is what happened to Kyron? And I think all of these things, were an attempt to find out and unfortunately, no one has found out anything. JMO
 
No new posting on Kyron's thread in over an hour. It must be a record. Is everyone at home enjoying family board game night playing "Risk"?
 
No new posting on Kyron's thread in over an hour. It must be a record. Is everyone at home enjoying family board game night playing "Risk"?
[ame="http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=116875"]NC NC - AMBER ALERT: Zahra Claire Baker, 10, Hickory, 9 Oct 2010 #2 - Websleuths Crime Sleuthing Community[/ame]
 
So Gitana are we not now back where we were before, that in order to amend this RO Terri needs to testify?

I'm just not understanding how this can happen if Terri won't answer questions. :waitasec:

I don't know how she plans to modify the RO without addressing the allegations in some manner. Maybe she plans to say, "I cannot address the allegations due to the fact that I am obviously the focus of a criminal investigation into those allegations but it is in the best interest for Baby K to have at least supervised visitation with her mother and former primary, stay-at-home caregiver. So I am asking for supervised visitation."
Kaine could also simply agree to supervised visits, and perhaps he will. He knows by now that TH won't talk or testify.
Otherwise, if Kaine says, "No, my allegations still stand. I think even supervised visits would put our kid at great risk." Then we are back to square one. TH would either have to answer the allegations or take the fifth. I suppose the judge could see the dilemma and order supervised visits without hearing new facts or any testimony, with the thinking that supervised visits are safe enough even if the allegations are true. I don't know. We'll see and I am very interested to see what happens next. We could learn a lot.

Wow. I didn't realize that. So basically, the MFH plot allegation in the RO is legally just...hearsay? Not permitted in a criminal court? Civil court?

Wow. This gives me a whole new thing to go think about--thank you!

Hearsay can be objected to in any court. I get it in often anyhow, through declarations, or even on the stand through testimony. The opposing party can object but often they don't and even if the judge on his or her own rules it's hearsay and not to be considered, I know they have already
heard it or read it and that it must have an effect.
However, if a case is built solely on hearsay with nothing to back it up, then it would be reversible error for the court to make ruling based only on hearsay. I don't think Kaine has any evidence, really. I think he just has hearsay from LE and they will not testify or submit their evidence because it would compromise their investigation to do so. So I don't know what he would have done had TH contested the RO and forced him to come up with evidence. Maybe as Desquire suggested, put TH on the stand and ask her questions about where she was and what she did that day (in a cross-examination style as an adverse witness) and force her to plead the fifth, which the judge could hold against her but still, they would be stuck with hearsay allegations and TH's silence and I really don't see how the court could make a ruling against TH based on that without great grounds for appeal. All of this is a very novel dilemma for the court.
Another way, I guess would be if Kaine explained his dilemma to the court and requested a sealed child custody evaluation but I don't think TH could participate in that because I think (crim lawyers, help me out here) that LE could subpoena the evaluation report as part of their criminal investigation. Child custody evaluation reports are automatically sealed from the public anyhow but confidential medical records and eval reports often come in during criminal trials. I'm not quite sure how that works. Anyone? In the meantime, I'll ask my law partner.
The evaluation would look into all the allegations and the evaluator can access all sorts of records. The evaluations are not bound by the rules of evidence so they can and do review hearsay statements but they really look for verifiable allegations. I just don't know what Kaine planned or if he actually has anything that he can actually submit without objection.

I don't think it can mean that. It doesn't make any sense to me, frankly. Kaine would know that he'd look very bad if he'd make something like that up about LE, and I don't think he'd want that in the middle of a missing child investigation. What would he gain anyway? Maybe he'd enjoy trashing Terri's reputation but it could very well eventually lead to ruining his own reputation if a source figured out that this was a bunch of BS. He couldn't have been sure that Terri wouldn't contest the RO and he wouldn't have to produce his LE witnesses which he couldn't have done if it was just a lie.

It'd be an amazing coincidence if LE didn't share the information with Kaine and he just magically happened to leave with the child and file for RO inventing a MFH plot coinciding with LE doing a MFH sting. I suppose the MFH sting would be a fact since there apparently is a 911 call about it.

Clearly, LE let Kaine know about what they found. That's the whole reason he filed for disso and an RO. LE would be remiss if they found out about a possible MFH plot but did not let the potential victim know.
 
Page 7 last paragraph:
"it can be assumed that husband knows or should surmise that whoever paid Mr. Houze (which happened after the parties seperated) had no intent to benefit husband by that payment). <<<< find this odd, still deciphering it.

"The court should be aware that, after Husband filed his motion for suit money, Mr. Houze and Wife's divorce attorney met with Husband's lawyer. At that meeting, they represented, as officers of the court, that the amount of money allegedly paid to Mr. Houze was inaccurate, and that a third party or parties paid for Mr. Houze's attorney fees. Wife's lawyers also represented that the money was neither a gift to Wife nor a loan" (pg. 3)

So, it's someone who likes Terri but Kaine not so much. It figures. Is there something in the Oregon law about gifts during the marriage and after separation? Could the former be considered gifts to the couple, intended to benefit both of them? Anyway, given the somewhat adversarial situation between them now it's pretty clear that whoever wants to have Houze defend Terri from the accusations Kaine has shared with us isn't concerned with what Kaine wants.

So he's got a point there.

Sorry, to quote myself but I wanted to keep the integrity of this dialogue intact.

IMO, it wouldn't just be someone that didn't want to benefit Kaine. Terri retained Houze really soon after the MFH bust and Kaine leaving home with Baby K. Which all ties back to Kyron going missing. So, either someone really doesn't like Kaine and Kyron (why else would you pay for someone's representation if you knew they were guilty) OR it was someone who KNOWS Terri is innocent.

Either way, I don't understand how providing Terri a defense lawyer wouldn't benefit her husband---unless of course he is setting her up (I DO NOT THINK THIS IS TRUE---I DO NOT BELIEVE THIS).

However, if Terri were innocent wouldn't providing her a defense attorney be a positive thing for KH---or at least a null?
 
Sorry, to quote myself but I wanted to keep the integrity of this dialogue intact.

IMO, it wouldn't just be someone that didn't want to benefit Kaine. Terri retained Houze really soon after the MFH bust and Kaine leaving home with Baby K. Which all ties back to Kyron going missing. So, either someone really doesn't like Kaine and Kyron (why else would you pay for someone's representation if you knew they were guilty) OR it was someone who KNOWS Terri is innocent.

Either way, I don't understand how providing Terri a defense lawyer wouldn't benefit her husband---unless of course he is setting her up (I DO NOT THINK THIS IS TRUE---I DO NOT BELIEVE THIS).

However, if Terri were innocent wouldn't providing her a defense attorney be a positive thing for KH---or at least a null?


kh believes she is guilty. she's come up with 350k to pay for a criminal defense attorney, but miraculously she has NO money to pay for her divorce attorney and is wanting KH to pay for that. He's like ....what???? if you can afford $350k to pay for your criminal defense, you can pay whatever the divorce costs. Ita agree wiht him.
 
kh believes she is guilty. she's come up with 350k to pay for a criminal defense attorney, but miraculously she has NO money to pay for her divorce attorney and is wanting KH to pay for that. He's like ....what???? if you can afford $350k to pay for your criminal defense, you can pay whatever the divorce costs. Ita agree wiht him.

This is not the point being discussed.

My response was at a comment by Bunch.
 
The bolded blue part had me thinking. I didn't understand the language in Houze's statement when he said it wasn't a gift in the traditional sense of the word. Yet I can't think of a way to define gift that DOESN'T fit the payment of a service on someone's behalf. What is it when you give someone a service and don't ask for them to repay it? Feels rather gifty to me.

Person A->gift->Person B

Person A-> $$$$ (gift)Person C for Person B?

IDK, but I think of it kind of like 'donations' To Big Name School here is a check for $$$$$, glad I could support you...oh and by the way my grandson is on the waiting list, could you check into that? K thanks, don't forget my tax write-off form.
 
Clearly, LE let Kaine know about what they found. That's the whole reason he filed for disso and an RO. LE would be remiss if they found out about a possible MFH plot but did not let the potential victim know.


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Ita...couldn't be any clearer, imo. I haven't seen LE distancing themselves from the piles (or whatever bunch said) of info that they provided to KH's counsel.
 
Maybe as Desquire suggested, put TH on the stand and ask her questions about where she was and what she did that day (in a cross-examination style as an adverse witness) and force her to plead the fifth, which the judge could hold against her but still, they would be stuck with hearsay allegations and TH's silence and I really don't see how the court could make a ruling against TH based on that without great grounds for appeal.

I'm quoting myself. You know what? Thinking about it, I don't think this scenario could occur at all. I know criminal charges have not been filed but there is an investigation and DV allegations, if true, constitute crimes. So, I don't think TH could even be called to the stand at all, where she would have to repeatedly invoke the fifth.
In my DV defense cases, if I say my client is not testifying, they are not called. Of course I've only done that when a criminal case is pending but I think it applies regardless.
 
This is not the point being discussed.

My response was at a comment by Bunch.

here's your quote...

However, if Terri were innocent wouldn't providing her a defense attorney be a positive thing for KH---or at least a null?

my point was NO it wouldn't be a positive or null, since she is demanding that he pay for it and HE doesn't think she's innocent.
 
This is the original Statement: The quote being discussed is Bunch's comment about the 3rd party that is paying Houze

Page 7 last paragraph:
"it can be assumed that husband knows or should surmise that whoever paid Mr. Houze (which happened after the parties seperated) had no intent to benefit husband by that payment). <<<< find this odd, still deciphering it.

This is Donjeta's response regarding that quote:

So, it's someone who likes Terri but Kaine not so much. It figures. Is there something in the Oregon law about gifts during the marriage and after separation? Could the former be considered gifts to the couple, intended to benefit both of them? Anyway, given the somewhat adversarial situation between them now it's pretty clear that whoever wants to have Houze defend Terri from the accusations Kaine has shared with us isn't concerned with what Kaine wants.

So he's got a point there.

This is my quote, where I quoted both Donjeta and myself (new comments in red)

Sorry, to quote myself but I wanted to keep the integrity of this dialogue intact.

The following comment is still in regards to the suggestion that the 3rd party that paid for Houze did not want to also benefit Kaine, which as I maintained then, makes no sense

IMO, it wouldn't just be someone that didn't want to benefit Kaine. Terri retained Houze really soon after the MFH bust and Kaine leaving home with Baby K. Which all ties back to Kyron going missing. So, either someone really doesn't like Kaine and Kyron (why else would you pay for someone's representation if you knew they were guilty) OR it was someone who KNOWS Terri is innocent.

Either way, I don't understand how providing Terri a defense lawyer wouldn't benefit her husband---unless of course he is setting her up (I DO NOT THINK THIS IS TRUE---I DO NOT BELIEVE THIS).

Once again, the following quote is still discussing the 3rd party paying Houze for Terri

However, if Terri were innocent wouldn't providing her a defense attorney be a positive thing for KH---or at least a null?

This quote (below), has nothing to do with the topic being discussed, no one is arguing this point, nor in the conversation between Donjeta and I (which of course others are free to add to) being discussed. We are discussing (at least I brought up) the idea that Bunch stated that the 3rd party (paraphrasing) didn't want to benefit Kaine by providing Terri with a criminal defense attorney (Houze), I feel as if I am becoming redundant now, so please see above for why I believe that is a silly argument to make.

kh believes she is guilty. she's come up with 350k to pay for a criminal defense attorney, but miraculously she has NO money to pay for her divorce attorney and is wanting KH to pay for that. He's like ....what???? if you can afford $350k to pay for your criminal defense, you can pay whatever the divorce costs. Ita agree wiht him.


here's your quote...

This quote has been taken out of the original context, that of discussing Bunch's (the divorce attorney) comments about the 3rd party NOT wanting to benefit Kaine by providing a Criminal defense attorney (Houze) for Terri
However, if Terri were innocent wouldn't providing her a defensestill meaning, as in the original comment the criminal defense attorney attorney be a positive thing for KH---or at least a null?

my point was NO it wouldn't be a positive or null, since she is demanding that he pay for it and HE doesn't think she's innocent.

The statement above is factually incorrect, my quote was in the context of discussing the 3rd party paying for Houze, Terri is not asking KH to pay for him, as obviously that bill has already been paid, she is asking for KH to pay for Bunch. Furthermore, my comment was in direct reference to a 3rd party not wanting to benefit Kaine with the provision of a criminal defense attorney (Houze), I have become redundant at this point please see above for what was being discussed
I'll determine what I think relevant points are, and comment accordingly.
In this case, however my comments were misconstrued and, so that there are no errors in what others believe I am saying, I am clarifying what my points were.
 
Just a guess but I think maybe neither Kaine nor Terri's lawyers are working under the assumption that it's in Kaine's best interest to get Terri cleared asap because she's innocent.
 
Just a guess but I think maybe neither Kaine nor Terri's lawyers are working under the assumption that it's in Kaine's best interest to get Terri cleared asap because she's innocent.

I agree with this, but would the 3rd party that paid for Houze believe that it is not in Kaine's best interest to get Terri cleared? Would said third party, NOT want to benefit Kaine by providing for Terri's criminal defense?

Because from my understanding of Bunch's comment, that is what he (Bunch) is alleging.
 
I agree with this, but would the 3rd party that paid for Houze believe that it is not in Kaine's best interest to get Terri cleared? Would said third party, NOT want to benefit Kaine by providing for Terri's criminal defense?

Because from my understanding of Bunch's comment, that is what he (Bunch) is alleging.

It's getting quite complicated. If my ex is suspected of doing away with my child, is it or is it not in my best interest to have someone pay a lot of money to get him an atty who could get him cleared? Of course if he's gotta have a lawyer it's best if someone else pays it so I don't have to but do I want him cleared if there's a good chance that he's guilty? It would be better for our remaining children to have a father out of jail but would the missing child get justice? But why the need to have all this secrecy about it if it was just a benefactor hoping to help Kaine have his daughter's mom cleared?

Dunno. Maybe Bunch just meant that the money that went to the lawyer was given after the separation, was not intended as a gift for the couple and was therefore not a marital asset.

If I was Bunch I'd be getting a bit ticked that I'm the one who's done all the work so far but Houze is the one who's got paid. Wasn't there something about Terri not having the funds to pay for her divorce attorney?
 
It's getting quite complicated. If my ex is suspected of doing away with my child, is it or is it not in my best interest to have someone pay a lot of money to get him an atty who could get him cleared? Of course if he's gotta have a lawyer it's best if someone else pays it so I don't have to but do I want him cleared if there's a good chance that he's guilty? It would be better for our remaining children to have a father out of jail but would the missing child get justice? But why the need to have all this secrecy about it if it was just a benefactor hoping to help Kaine have his daughter's mom cleared?
As third party, NOT KH or the Lawyers, would you believe that it was KH's best interest/benefit to pay Terri's Houze fees?

Dunno. Maybe Bunch just meant that the money that went to the lawyer was given after the separation, was not intended as a gift for the couple and was therefore not a marital asset.
This makes sense, and seems to be the most reasonable assessment

If I was Bunch I'd be getting a bit ticked that I'm the one who's done all the work so far but Houze is the one who's got paid. Wasn't there something about Terri not having the funds to pay for her divorce attorney?
Yep, TH can't pay Bunch and is asking for KH's help


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