One of the things Kaine does say (in paragraph five, page four of the RO app) is "My wife attempted to hire someone to kill me."
That is the entire statement under that paragraph.
In the preceding paragraph (I believe) Kaine stated that LE has given him reason to believe his wife attempted to hire someone to murder him.
So he says it both ways.
No matter what he said or how he said it, it was enough for the judge. Now we just have to wait and see what he will do with this visitation request.
If the R/o petition says that, than that is an established fact according to my friend's husband. If it's alleged and not responded to in a civil case, it is "conclusive fact" according to him. He recited it to me like he was reading out of a book, without my even going into detail, so I believe he has dealt with that issue enough times to know the law on the subject.