2010.07.12 - TH accused of sexual affair

[cluciano63]

I think this guy started out meaning well and then got sucked in by Terri's "charms". I honestly don't feel he is a part of anything that may have happened. Now he's coming off all foolish because he is a fool, but I think he is an innocent fool, except for whatever he did with Terri if he is supposed to be Kaine's friend. Terri is a mental case, at the very least, and must have something men like, she keeps getting more husbands.

 

[T-Rex]

I thought there was something really crude, and gratuitous about this leak. But now, I think I get it: LE leaked it to make the landscaper talk. If he and Terri were intimate, and involved in the disappearance together--this is supposed to make him turn on her.

 

[JBean]

why is this information being referred to as a leak. Aren't these just public court records that the media released? Am I missing something?

 

[debirlfan]

And they could be recent as well. And they could have been sent by TH. Nothing in the known facts precludes that. To conclude something else we have to add more conjecture.

Precisely - but I don't think we should automatically assume that they are recent - or take as fact that they MUST have been sent by TH. Given what we actually KNOW, as opposed to what is surmised, there are other possibilities - and a frame up to sway public opinion even further against TH would certainly make at least much sense as TH coming on to some friend of her husband's that she doesn't even know.

 

[Aedrys]

If it's true that TMH did not know MC before Kyron went missing, I find the situation suspicious. TMH has already displayed "odd" behavior that is out of character for the situation. However, I have to wonder more about MC and his motivations. Why did he seek out TMH? Why was he so quick to strike up sexting or engaging with her? Basically, why now and why so fast?

In my opinion, TMH's behavior is not the only fishy part of this news. I feel like a lot of people are overlooking MC or dismissing him as thinking with a certain part of his anatomy. However, even if a man was motivated by lust, I'm not sure why he would go after TMH, in this situation, when there are plenty of women to be picked up in bars. Frankly, I find it suspicious that he's wormed his way into TMH's life so quickly. :twocents:

Men just seem to have a thing for crazy, dangerous women though. I don't what it is, but I have heard more stories of men hooking up with these types of women and then regret it later. I don't know if these women exude sex more, are just more charming and maybe more kinky in the bedroom or what, but it seems like they attract men like bees to honey. I have no problem seeing her hooking him in so fast. He was an idiot to fall for it, though, but he's a man, and we all know what men like at first, and it isn't a woman's personality obviously.

 

[mayelf]

What if he's just a horndog, and took a woman in a vulnerable moment. Or she is a narcissistic woman who wanted someone on her side.

It's too hard to speculate why people do much of anything. I just hope whatever is going on behind doors, Kyron is always the first priority for EVERYONE.

Children are too special to let this drama get the stage.

Local news for 11pm said they are going to talk about the case. I hope it's not the same ol' crap we keep hearing and they have any sort of clue or lead on where to find this child.

 

[Haeve]

Men just seem to have a thing for crazy, dangerous women though. <snip>

I think that could go both ways, just sayin'

 

[Barry]

IMO, it is not unusual that people have affairs like this, under what would be deemed inapproriate circumstances. Some people need this physical "release", due to various reasons. Some of these reasons can be phycological and not easy to control.

This affair, IMO, in and of itself, is inconclusive at best as to if TH was or wasn't involved with Kyrons disappearance. As to what it says about TH's character, I would refer back to the phycological possibilty as a reason to be careful about judging it.

IMO, there are plenty of other good reasons to suspect TH, although I'm not complelely there yet.

 

[Cher352]

IMO, it is not unusual that people have affairs like this, under what would be deemed inapproriate circumstances. Some people need this physical "release", due to various reasons. Some of these reasons can be phycological and not easy to control.

This affair, IMO, in and of itself, is inconclusive at best as to if TH was or wasn't involved with Kyrons disappearance. As to what it says about TH's character, I would refer back to the phycological possibilty as a reason to be careful about judging it.

IMO, there are plenty of other good reasons to suspect TH, although I'm not complelely there yet.

Plus she was stuck in the house all day for weeks now...what's a girl to do???

(just kidding)

 

[human]

I don't believe it's been stated anywhere just WHEN these pictures were taken. Whether TH sent them or someone else did, they still might not be current photos. They could even be from back in her body building days. I think it's just being assumed that the photos were recently taken.

so she keeps them handy for emergencies? :angel:

 

[2goldfish]

Men just seem to have a thing for crazy, dangerous women though. I don't what it is, but I have heard more stories of men hooking up with these types of women and then regret it later. I don't know if these women exude sex more, are just more charming and maybe more kinky in the bedroom or what, but it seems like they attract men like bees to honey. I have no problem seeing her hooking him in so fast. He was an idiot to fall for it, though, but he's a man, and we all know what men like at first, and it isn't a woman's personality obviously.

they have the stench of desperation all over em. either the guy figures it's an easy conquest else it gets the saviour complex up and going.

 

[newone]

Plus she was stuck in the house all day for weeks now...what's a girl to do???

(just kidding)

she didn't know how to crochet????

 

[TakeNote]

:laugh:

she didn't know how to crochet????

 

[RubyRed]

Desiree Young also responded to new allegations that Terri Horman sent explicit texts to a high school friend of Kyron's father, Kaine. "It's disgusting,"she said.

http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2010/07/kyron_hormans_mother_desiree_y_1.html

 

[adh74]

I think this guy only moved to the area 7 or so months ago? Did I read that someplace? I thought I also read that although he lived nearby, it was like 7 miles, which would not likely place him in contact with Terri on an accidental basis. I think they just met after June 4th. And both need something from the other, maybe it is sex for him, but it probably something else for her.

If he knew anything about Kyron, I think he would spill it. Sounds like he did not take long to crack on what he has said to date. If he told LE something credible about Kyron, maybe an arrest will follow, if they can verify it in any way.

Does anyone know of any searching going on up thataway? I think LE would try to search clandestinely at this point, if they are following tips. Maybe looking more like a work crew?

Hmm...could he live hear that out-of-the-way grocery store that they got video surveillance for? Not the one by her gym, but the one that was several miles away.

 

[watchful_eye]

If the pictures were sent during Kyron's disappearance, it shows that BOTH Terri and Michael have no regard for Kyron. If your child, or your neighbor/friend's/loved one's child went missing, SEX is NOT A PRIORITY!! HELLOO!!??

Taking the pictures of the court document is SHADY.

If Terri and Michael were having the affair BEFORE all of this mess, which to me, is likely, then well, that speaks to her (bad) character too. Obviously, she did not care about her marriage, and that does not make her look good in Kyron's case.

When you show disregard for your marriage, it hurts the family unit, and shows disregard for your family. I'm not saying that if you cheat, you hate or want to hurt your kids, but you certainly are not prioritizing their health and safety as #1 if you are. Cheating breaks families apart, and builds them based on lies. NOT healthy.

 

[TopTop]

If the pictures were sent during Kyron's disappearance, it shows that BOTH Terri and Michael have no regard for Kyron. If your child, or your neighbor/friend's/loved one's child went missing, SEX is NOT A PRIORITY!! HELLOO!!??

Taking the pictures of the court document is SHADY.

If Terri and Michael were having the affair BEFORE all of this mess, which to me, is likely, then well, that speaks to her (bad) character too. Obviously, she did not care about her marriage, and that does not make her look good in Kyron's case.

When you show disregard for your marriage, it hurts the family unit, and shows disregard for your family. I'm not saying that if you cheat, you hate or want to hurt your kids, but you certainly are not prioritizing their health and safety as #1 if you are. Cheating breaks families apart, and builds them based on lies. NOT healthy.

I agree...cheaters care about one person and one person only. Themselves.

 

[Jules71]

Hmm...could he live hear that out-of-the-way grocery store that they got video surveillance for? Not the one by her gym, but the one that was several miles away.

Good point. Where does MC live in relation to the store who sent in the video?

 

[AbbieNormal]

I don't know why she's being accused by Kaine, but I believe her affair is VERY relevant to the investigation. I don't believe this is just trash or voyeurism - police LOOK for things exactly like this when a child/spouse goes missing, because it is often found to be the motive for the child's disappearance. I'm thinking Susan Smith, Diane Downs, Scott Peterson, etc. It matters. Affairs matter because they can possibly lead to motive, which can possibly lead investigators down the path to discovery.

I don't care in the slightest what TH the woman, the citizen of Oregon, USA does in her personal life - there are millions of women like her living their lives in various styles I'm sure I wouldn't agree with. But if it can help exclude her/include her as a suspect and help police figure out what happened to Kyron, a child, then heck yes investigate her private life and affairs and finances and known associates. I honestly believe that it's relevant.

Trying to read and catch up on what I skipped.
I don't care about TH's personal life either. BUT having a sexting (or any other) "affair" for lack of a better word-use "relationship" if you want, is highly inappropriate at this time and makes any NORMAL person wonder WTH DOES THIS when a child is missing? WTH does this when a child is missing and YOU are the one the whole population feels is into it up to your eyeballs. Does she not know or suspect LE might get her phone and search it via search warrant at any time? Does she not care?
I don;t think this is about trying to get TH for some crime she can be arrested for, first and foremost. I think this is about trying to get TH in a position where she either reveals where Kyron is or gets close enough to someone (such as Sexting partner) that that person might be able to get her to reveal where he is. Finding Kyron is all that's important, right now. TH has plenty to spend time in jail for later, I am sure.
Her actions speak to her character and her lack of concern whatsoever not only for Kyron, but also for the loss of her own biological child. And not a care, apparently, for what her actions have done to her teenage son and what his feelings for her, from now till the day he dies, might be. He could have completely lost all respect and hate her forever- does she even care???

abbie

 

[suzet]

Trying to read and catch up on what I skipped.
I don't care about TH's personal life either. BUT having a sexting (or any other) "affair" for lack of a better word-use "relationship" if you want, is highly inappropriate at this time and makes any NORMAL person wonder WTH DOES THIS when a child is missing? WTH does this when a child is missing and YOU are the one the whole population feels is into it up to your eyeballs. Does she not know or suspect LE might get her phone and search it via search warrant at any time? Does she not care?
I don;t think this is about trying to get TH for some crime she can be arrested for, first and foremost. I think this is about trying to get TH in a position where she either reveals where Kyron is or gets close enough to someone (such as Sexting partner) that that person might be able to get her to reveal where he is. Finding Kyron is all that's important, right now. TH has plenty to spend time in jail for later, I am sure.
Her actions speak to her character and her lack of concern whatsoever not only for Kyron, but also for the loss of her own biological child. And not a care, apparently, for what her actions have done to her teenage son and what his feelings for her, from now till the day he dies, might be. He could have completely lost all respect and hate her forever- does she even care???

abbie

Great post. I agree and I hope they find Kyron soon.