There would be no anger if she'd just gone missing and come home. She used resources, massive resources, on her hoax abduction, during which she framed herself as a Good Samaritan. She committed several crimes. She's dragged this out, continuing to use resources. She's acted just like the spoiled, privileged 26 year-old she certainly appears to be. JMOO She's not cooperated with LE. She's created this mess, and now Mommy and Daddy have paid for the fancy rich lawyer. Then to top it all off, she issues a statement that is self-serving and lacking in contrition. RH seems to be quite content expecting everyone else to clean up her messes. AJMOO
Yup, you said the magic word:
C-to-the-O-to-the-N - well, you get the idea:
Contrition.
IMO, that's the major thing Carlee lacks; and that's what people most long to see coming forth from her.
She seems, in fact, fairly UNrepentant, on the whole.
Whereas... the overwhelming majority of us believe we have responsibilities as members of polite society.
And when people are privileged to live in polite society, by what seems like the apparent achievements of their parents and not much else to date; well, many other people don't like to see that type of privilege squandered and tap-danced over.
We like to see people use it as a springboard for good.
There is merit for "walk a mile in other people's shoes" in many situations; but Carlee crossed over into "shouting Fire! in a crowded theater" territory, which is generally universally decried in the interests of civil behavior and societal standards.
The time for Carlee and her family to talk about making restitution to the polite and civil society is, IMO, now.
In fact, I was just listening to a true crime podcast episode featuring a young fairly privileged middle-class woman whose parents had to make the bitter Sophie's Choice to take the money they could afford to collate to pay for a good defense attorney (barely), but which funds wouldn't then extend to bail, leaving her in prison until at minimum her trial, which was not particularly speedy; and that, IMO, was "tough love".