Found Deceased AL - Kamille "Cupcake" McKinney, 3, kidnapped from party, Birmingham, 12 Oct 2019 *Arrests* #7

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Tony Sloan on Twitter
Just days after Kamille "Cupcake" McKinney was found in a dumpster in Birmingham, her older brother remembers her in a touching way.
PHOTOS: Barber Johnathan Lee
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12:30 PM - 26 Oct 2019

(Another photo at the link but I am not posting it as it shows his face)
Wow, that looks awesome!
What a great way to honor Cupcakes life.
 
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Thought I share this. Came across it in one of my text books.

Child Abductors/Rapists:

- A survey of kidnapping data conducted in 2002 for the U.S. Department of Justice revealed that of the roughly 261,000 children who are abducted each year, the majority (203,900) are taken by family members – often in a custody dispute – and 90 to 115 are victims of a stranger abduction.

- The sex offender who abducts (and rapes) a child does so, unlike their Internet counterparts, because this individual does not have the social skills to entice children to engage in sexually explicit conversations etc.

- Their behavior is usually similar to that of the situational offender because they will abduct children who are victims of opportunity.

- These offenders are immature, have little formal education, work in lower-level unskilled jobs, have trouble getting or maintaining healthy sexual relationships with other adults, and have low self-confidence and low socialization skills.

- These offenders do not intend to harm the child when they plan their abductions; rather they have a fantasy that once they engage in sex with the child, the child will fall in love with them.

- The actual abduction is usually spontaneous.

- The reality of the forced rape causes the child to cry or fight back, and the offender realizes that he made a grave mistake and often only sees one recourse – to kill the child and hide the evidence.

Sick, sick sick…

There is also information on sex rings… but I can’t bring myself to read that now. I have had enough darkness for one sitting…

Resource: Lynch, V. & Duval, J. Forensic Nursing Science – Second Edition.

Female Sex Offenders

- Most studies show that at least 90% of child sexual abuse is committed by men.

- Who are the 10% female sex offenders? Based on Dr. Anna C. Salter, forensic psychologist, there are 3 categories.

1. The “incest abuser” who molests her own children from a very early age, starting before the child reaches age 6 and sometimes continue until the child reaches his or her teens. These women are immature, isolated, and without adult partners, and have psychotic personality defects in which they do not view themselves as separate from their children. Salter terms this as “fusion” and is a psychological distortion in which mother cannot detach their children as separate entities after birth. Thus, the molestation is “masturbatory” rather than “molestation”, as the child is a physical extension of the mother, more like an arm or a leg, rather than a sentient and separate human being.

2. The “teacher/lover” – Female teacher targeting student.

3. The “psychologically battered” abusers are submissive and timid; they still seek dominant male partners to control every aspect of their lives. These women may be so submissive that if combined with a dominant pedophile partner, they will acquiesce to participating in or allowing the sexual abuse of their children by the male partner. The form of female sex offender may even molest her children for the pleasure and benefit of her dominant male partners, even doing so when the male partner is not physically present.

Hmm... not sure if anything here fits D...

Resource: Lynch, V. & Duval, J. Forensic Nursing Science – Second Edition.

Thanks for these references.
 
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Morning everyone!

While I agree with most all of what you posted on one thing I do not.

What I respectfully disagree with is when you say 'often' the abused becomes an abuser.

That's simply not true, and we need to recognize that fact.

There are over 6 million children being sexually abused EVERY year so if that was truly a deciding factor... we would see millions of both genders who were sexually abused, become abusers of other children or other various victims.

The overwhelming vast majority of childhood survivors do not become abusers, not only of children, but not against anyone else for that matter.

Now when they do find themselves in the criminal justice system will those offenders, and attorneys use this as an excuse for why they did so? Absolutely. Many will always place blame on others rather than squarely on all of the evildoers themselves. Its the same, yadda yadda, of don't blame ME...blame them. Ugh!

Imo the childhood abuse excuse is used trying to diminish the horrific violence they are charged with doing. This has become almost standard if the defendant is a female offender.

Ever wonder why it's rarely if ever, used as an excuse when the offenders are males even though boys in the millions are also terribly abused ? These excuses predominantly used by females are rarely successful in the trials or in the mitigation phases either, rightfully so, imo.

Like all horrendous murderers of both genders its only logical there will be those with an abusive childhood or some type of abuse in their adulthood, just like there is of numerous other individual murderers who brutally murder who have lived life without any abuse in it whatsover.

Imo, it's just a standard cop out excuse used by criminal female offenders trying to excuse the indefensible.

Jurors, rarely if ever.. buy it because it defies all commonsense, and logic. They know everyone has the same ability to make right or wrong choices about what they do, and who they decide they want to become in adulthood.

Millions of survivors of childhood abuses make the right choices to be better than where they came from when children.

Percentage wise only a few of them find themselves in the criminal justice system in comparison.

We can't ever lose sight of that fact. To do so it does a grave injustice to the many million of survivors who have become law abiding citizens never harming anyone, human nor animal.

Jmho

Word, ocean. I love this post. :)
I agree completely.

No juror is going to buy any of that, nor should they.



ETA: I realized immediately when I read back on my post that I had used the word “often” which was not the best word; if I could rephrase it, I would use the word “sometimes”.

Out of curiosity, I’m pulling a few links to see exactly what the numbers do look like statistically, but as mentioned there would be much data unreported, etc..

(Here are some quick links strictly for academic reference, marking haven’t looked at them yet:

•” 31 percent percent of women in prison in the United States were abused as children. “
Statistics of Child Abuse | NAASCA.org - National Association of Adult Survivors of Child Abuse

“Children who experience child abuse and neglect are 59% more likely to be arrested as a juvenile, 28% more likely to be arrested as an adult, and 30% more likely to commit violence crime.”
11 Facts About Child Abuse

“About 30% of abused and neglected children will later abuse their own children, continuing the horrible cycle of abuse.”
Child Abuse Statistics - American SPCC

Cycle of child sexual abuse: links between being a victim and becoming a perpetrator. - PubMed - NCBI

https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/news/20030206/do-sexually-abused-kids-become-abusers

Cycle of child sexual abuse: Links between being a victim and becoming a perpetrator | The British Journal of Psychiatry | Cambridge Core

Sexual Abuse in the Childhood of Perpetrators | INSPQ

Breaking the cycle of abuse

10 Reasons the Cycle of Sexual Abuse Continues

Childhood abuse victims don’t always grow up to be abusers

The Cycle of Abuse: When Victims Become Offenders
SAGE Journals: Your gateway to world-class research journals
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•Another thing coincidently is that I was posting in other case simultaneously where the abused became the abuser. I had actually just mentioned the cycle of abuse over there. She is a trafficking victim who became trafficker.

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Re: ((Insert quote) the majority who move forward to protect their kids)

Absolutely. There are some of those women here, that have shared their own stories of abuse as a child. These members are some of the strongest child advocates I know :)

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Certainly no excuses for that monster coming from me!!

QJ is a monster plain and simple. There is no excuse for her actions. She killed a three year old child.
 
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Conner Board on Twitter
It has been two weeks since Kamille "Cupcake" McKinney was kidnapped. It has been four days since police found her body. Now tomorrow, the three-year-old will be laid to rest.
2:00 PM - 26 Oct 2019

Funeral set for Kamille ‘Cupcake’ McKinney
[...]

The funeral is planned for New Beginning Christian Ministry, where pastor Sylvester Wilson said the church has a 700-seat sanctuary and can use its fellowship hall as an overflow auditorium.

“It’s open to the public. I already know that our church is nowhere big enough to hold this crowd,” said Wilson. The child’s mother previously attended the church, he said.

[...]

Also, Crime Stoppers of Metro Alabama said it was establishing a permanent reward fund in the girl’s name to help in future child abductions. The group said it had received more than $35,000 in donations linked to the girl’s disappearance.

[...]

“There is no silver lining in the Cupcake tragedy,” Frank Barefield, chairman of the organization’s board, said in a statement. “However, we are deeply moved by the public’s generosity during the investigation of her kidnapping. We hope the memory of Cupcake is somehow kept alive not only in our community, but also in the generosity of these donors.”
 
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(FOX) — Police have determined that Kamille “Cupcake” McKinney — a 3-year-old girl kidnapped from a birthday party in Birmingham, Ala., whose remains were later found in a dumpster — died by asphyxiation, or suffocation, according to court warrants read by a judge Friday.

Patrick Devone Stallworth, 39, and Derick Irisha Brown, 29, made their first court appearances after the Jefferson County District Attorney charged them each with capital murder on Thursday.

[...]

A Celebration of Life ceremony for McKinney is scheduled for Sunday, followed by visitation and burial.

Alabama girl Kamille ‘Cupcake’ McKinney’s cause of death revealed in court warrant
 
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Just catching up this afternoon. Has it been determined whether sexual assault was part of this? I keep looking to see if there is anything official but can't seem to find anything.

TIA
 
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Just catching up this afternoon. Has it been determined whether sexual assault was part of this? I keep looking to see if there is anything official but can't seem to find anything.

TIA
No, not at this point. MOO
 
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Just catching up this afternoon. Has it been determined whether sexual assault was part of this? I keep looking to see if there is anything official but can't seem to find anything.

TIA

I haven’t seen anything on this yet (I’m still catching up as well).

Any word on if CC’s autopsy report will be released?
 
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I haven’t seen anything on this yet (I’m still catching up as well).

Any word on if CC’s autopsy report will be released?
No, not yet. MOO
 
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When a person makes a CrimeStoppers report, they are given a reference number. I have done a CrimeStoppers report online and the reference number is automatic. So a person can use it if they have more info or want to follow up on the report.

Slightly o/t, here is something I learned about rewards offered by CrimeStoppers - I thiiiiiink it might’ve been in the Seminole Heights shooter case where I learned about this; I know there are at least a couple instances of where this has happened, iirc:

A person calls a tip into PD which leads to the arrest of the individual responsible.

There is a reward available.

The tipster doesn’t get the reward.

You know why?

Because he/she didn’t call it in to Crimestoppers, they called it in to PD instead.

This is a bad deal for the tipster, imo.
 
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Just catching up this afternoon. Has it been determined whether sexual assault was part of this? I keep looking to see if there is anything official but can't seem to find anything.

TIA

I suspect that officials may wait until the Celebration of Life for little KM is over before they allow the release of any (further) disturbing details.

The grief will be paramount, as it is. imo
 
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Little sweet Cupcake has touched everyone far & wide, in Alabama and beyond. My children are in high school, it is a fairly large school with children of all races & income levels outside of Birmingham. The day after they found little cupcake my son came home & said people were mad that she was found dead in a dumpster, he said the kids were talking about how messed up someone would have to be to do that to a child. My daughter came home Friday (yesterday) & as we were pulling up to our house she told me that most kids at the school were wearing purple in honor of Cupcake & as I saw the middle school students getting off of the bus the majority of them were wearing purple. It warms my heart to see how little cupcake has made such an impact on people. I just wish she could still be here to see it! The chief was right when he said she brought the whole city together & I hope that everyone will take lessons from this case and strive to make the city & ultimately the world a kinder & more caring place.
 
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I suspect that officials may wait until the Celebration of Life for little KM is over before they allow the release of any (further) disturbing details.

The grief will be paramount, as it is. imo

Gosh I hope so, that they wait until after CC’s Celebration of Life.

Any chances they might seal these documents until trial?
 
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Gosh I hope so, that they wait until after CC’s Celebration of Life.

Any chances they might seal these documents until trial?
I think in Alabama the autopsy report is public information, unless there is a chance releasing it will compromise the investigation.
I guess we'll have to wait and see.
The COD is asphyxiation, which I'm thinking could have occurred from being smothered, strangled, or even from a gag or something placed over the face to keep the victim quiet.

Imo
 
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I think in Alabama the autopsy report is public information, unless there is a chance releasing it will compromise the investigation.
I guess we'll have to wait and see.
The COD is asphyxiation, which I'm thinking could have occurred from being smothered, strangled, or even from a gag or something placed over the face to keep the victim quiet.

Imo

Yes, I just looked that up.

In Alabama, the autopsy report is public record.

And the 911 call has limitations on its disclosure.


Alabama (Ala. Code § 36-18-2)
Autopsy reports are public records and have no direct limitations on disclosure.

(911 calls) Alabama (Ala. Code § 11-98-12)
May be released only:
● to law enforcement personnel conducting an investigation where the call is or may be relevant;
● to the 911 caller, his or her representative, or his or her estate in certain circumstances, upon verification of the requester's identity and that the recording is pertinent to the investigation of a legal matter resulting from the events necessitating the call; or
● when a court finds that the right of the public to the release of the recording outweighs the privacy interests of the individual who made the 911 call or any person involved in the facts or circumstances relating to the call.

STATES' LAWS ON DISCLOSING CRIME SCENE PHOTOGRAPHS, AUTOPSY REPORTS, AND 911 TAPES AND TRANSCRIPTS
 
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