margarita25
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It just occurred to me that maaaaaybe, depending on the extent of decomposition, IF she shot up heroin, a needle mark(s) may be present.
To play the devils advocate, due to personal experience. Most recovering addicts have the “I’m better now/I’ve recovered/stronger than I was/I can have fun without it” thoughts working against them and if they’re not far enough in their recovery will fall right back in the hole. But in some cases they can go and have their fun without falling back into it.Given the length of heroin addiction (I don't remember if it's been mentioned), but an addict can act younger than their age based on years of addiction and/or damage to their brain.
Also, a person in recovery should know not to go to a bar where the chances of meeting up with someone who has drugs is a very high possibility.
rsbm.........and if the friend was the one who provided the drugs...
This says date of death is January 3rd?
This is the second article that states friends (plural) say she left with 2 men.
This is true. However, if PH had areas of her life parents did not approve of, it would be understandable if she were private about all of that to maintain peace and to show respect for their feelings. Perhaps this led to the initial story of what happened the night she disappeared changing. Moo...The reality sadly is that PH did not require any approval from her mother. She is 29 years old and far past the transition to adulthood.
That's correct, the day the ME called her death.This says date of death is January 3rd????
Yes. They confirmed it was Paighton.Has there been any indication when/if they might release a confirmed identification?
That's completely standard when someone is found dead and the date of death is unknown.This says date of death is January 3rd????
This says date of death is January 3rd????
I noticed that. My guess is that this date was given because this was the day she was recovered and because they do not know what day she died. Moo...This says date of death is January 3rd????
This is the second article that states friends (plural) say she left with 2 men.
This says date of death is January 3rd????
(Re the link to the Obituary - it is odd, there is no obituary......This says date of death is January 3rd????
Not to mention, I would imagine her daughter’s past addiction was a much greater fear than who she dated.Wow...now we are mom shaming? Assuming we KNOW how the mom felt about PH's sexual preference? I am a Christian and I have several friends and family that are gay and I am glad most of them know how I feel about them and aren't judging me and assuming I condemn them. Not to get into any type of discussion about religion, but I am sure the mom feels horrible for what she did or did not do - because moms feel responsible for their children no matter the age. She doesn't need to read that some suspect she drove PH to lie and deceive because she was trying to be protective the best way she knew how.
Ive heard soda whipped.
"Spilled a lot of pixels"... love it!! Going to steal that one!It's pretty common with missing people that the family uses the date the remains were discovered or the date the ME pronounced the death as the obituary's date of death. It was a big issue with Libby and Abby's case in Indiana--one family used the date of disappearance and the other family used the date of discovery, and we spilled a lot of pixels trying to decide if that meant the second girl was alive for a while.
Has there been any indication when/if they might release a confirmed identification?