All Things Britney Spears Part 4

[MsPooh]

IMHO..ahem...IF you have ever been down the horrible road of depression, you'll understand this. I've been there done that, I have had "that" blank expression she is wearing..I have been to the point of laughing uncontrollably..even in the worse situations..It hurts like hell to be there, and feel like there is absolutely no way out of the way that you are feeling..IF you are lucky to still be "feeling" anything at all..IT is NOT drug induced or alcohol induced..It is brought on by expecting too much of yourself and not wating to get anyone else involved, you believe you can handle it ALL yourself..kids ,life..everyfreakingthing....Now imagine you have freaks watching you 24/7 just expecting you to screw up! I would not be surprised if she has turned into herself because SHE is the only person she can depend on..everyone else takes every little thing she does and turns it into what THEY want it to be..and believe me depression can spin so out of control in the blink of an eye..Really who has she got that has got her back? Who?!?!? Her family?!?!HAHAHA! funny Friends?!?! yeah okay.... Partner?!?! yeah they take advantage of her too...But she has plenty of armchair shrinks that diagnose her drug addiction, alcholism....and God knows what else..Has anyone else really truly tried to help her with the underlying cause of all this?!?! Oh Kevin is such a better parent for the babies than her he gets custody?!?! What the hell is up with that?? If it were me in her shoes, just trying to make sense of that one thing would be enough to drive me over the edge..

 

[JinxieJada]

No harm meant - but aren't you doing the same (playing amateur psychologist) by stating she's nothing but spoiled? Also, unless you've been there, and been through it, I really don't understand how you can say it's a ridiculous illness. I don't find someone's breakdown a laughing matter..regardless of who they are. A person doesn't have to like someone to feel empathy.

 

[Elphaba]

Britney can make it through this and prosper... look at Patty Duke Astin... there are many similarities in her younger life that Britney is now living through. For Patty, getting the right help, helped her to rise above things and now she is an activist for various mental health issues.

Go down and read the "transition to adulthood" and "personal life"... there are laces of Britney's life in it. What Britney needs is someone like Patty to befriend and guide her... someone to say "I really know what you are going through and I am here to help you... you are not alone and with the right help and discipline you can rise above it."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patty_Duke

 

[lymom3]

No harm meant - but aren't you doing the same (playing amateur psychologist) by stating she's nothing but spoiled? Also, unless you've been there, and been through it, I really don't understand how you can say it's a ridiculous illness. I don't find someone's breakdown a laughing matter..regardless of who they are. A person doesn't have to like someone to feel empathy.

Amen to that.

 

[browneyes]

I don't know what her problem is~~~~~but I feel sad for her and especially for her children.

I don't feel a whole lot better that K-Fed will have permanent custody. :doh:

 

[ember]

Isn't her youngest a little old for her to be suffering from PPP now???

hmm, not sure... no, he isn't quite yet. He just turned one y.o. in September, I think
It takes 18 months for a woman's hormones and body chemistry to get completely back to normal after the birth of a baby....and that's only if there is no breast feeding.
It sucks that it takes 9 months to get there, then double that to get back to normal. That is a huge change for your body to go through...maybe even the biggest, save puberty.

Now imagine the rollercoaster ride your hormones take when you give birth to Irish twins, which are essentially what Brit's boys are. Your hormones are starting to go back to normal when out of no where, they make a U turn and start heading down the baby trail again. Hormone and chemical balances in the body are all over the place. It very well could drive someone crazy.

I have long thought that her back-to-back pregnancies had a whole lot to do with why she spiraled down so fast. That, coupled with a life full of fake people and no real love, is a recipe for disaster. Obviously.

Poor child. She needs some good ol' fashioned TLC...and then a swift kick in the rear. I'm still pulling for her.

 

[Elphaba]

Well, she just go a huge break: right now, police will not be charging her with anything in regards of last night's incident.

As much as I believe that she needs help, I also believe that she should be made to face the consequences of her actions. By taking her child captive and refusing to hand him over, she was committing a crime... at least that is how I perceive it and many a person has been taken in and booked for lesser actions. The girl better be thanking her lucky stars...

 

[White Rain]

IMHO..ahem...IF you have ever been down the horrible road of depression, you'll understand this. I've been there done that, I have had "that" blank expression she is wearing..I have been to the point of laughing uncontrollably..even in the worse situations..It hurts like hell to be there, and feel like there is absolutely no way out of the way that you are feeling..IF you are lucky to still be "feeling" anything at all..IT is NOT drug induced or alcohol induced..It is brought on by expecting too much of yourself and not wating to get anyone else involved, you believe you can handle it ALL yourself..kids ,life..everyfreakingthing....Now imagine you have freaks watching you 24/7 just expecting you to screw up! I would not be surprised if she has turned into herself because SHE is the only person she can depend on..everyone else takes every little thing she does and turns it into what THEY want it to be..and believe me depression can spin so out of control in the blink of an eye..Really who has she got that has got her back? Who?!?!? Her family?!?!HAHAHA! funny Friends?!?! yeah okay.... Partner?!?! yeah they take advantage of her too...But she has plenty of armchair shrinks that diagnose her drug addiction, alcholism....and God knows what else..Has anyone else really truly tried to help her with the underlying cause of all this?!?! Oh Kevin is such a better parent for the babies than her he gets custody?!?! What the hell is up with that?? If it were me in her shoes, just trying to make sense of that one thing would be enough to drive me over the edge..

MsPooh, I understand depression all to well. It IS hell. And you're right about that blank look. My hubby tells me my eyes look dead when I am like that. It's like you can stare at anything, but you see nothing.
God do I also know the "there's no way out of this" feeling. It helps to know there are others out there who go through the same thing.
I sincerely hope Britney can get help.

 

[FLMom]

TMZ now reporting that Brit has completely lost custody. Kevin now has temporary sole legal and sole physical custody. No visitation for Brit.

http://www.aolcdn.com/tmz_documents/0104_brit_kfed_order_wm.pdf

www.tmz.com

 

[JinxieJada]

From tmz.com

The Commish in the Brit case just issued his order -- K-Fed gets sole legal and physical custody. Brit gets nothing. The man is a dirty snake IMO.


Here's a copy of the order - published at the TMZ website and the link lifted from there.


http://www.aolcdn.com/tmz_documents/0104_brit_kfed_order_wm.pdf


To paraphrase it though - FexEx has been awarded sole legal and physical custody, Britt's visitation is suspended and another court hearing has been Scheduled for Jan 14th.

 

[JBean]

From tmz.com

The Commish in the Brit case just issued his order -- K-Fed gets sole legal and physical custody. Brit gets nothing. The man is a dirty snake IMO.


Here's a copy of the order - published at the TMZ website and the link lifted from there.


http://www.aolcdn.com/tmz_documents/0104_brit_kfed_order_wm.pdf

Are you saying that KFed is a dirty snake because he is getting full custody? or just a dirty snake in general?

 

[JinxieJada]

Sorry FlMom, It looks like we were posting at the same time LOL!

 

[JinxieJada]

Are you saying that KFed is a dirty snake because he is getting full custody? or just a dirty snake in general?

Dirty snake in general. With the animosity he has for her, I don't believe he should be testifying at her court hearing this morning about her mental health and what would be the best for her etc. Of COURSE it's in his best interest for her to be locked up etc.

 

[JBean]

Dirty snake in general. With the animosity he has for her, I don't believe he should be testifying at her court hearing this morning about her mental health and what would be the best for her etc. Of COURSE it's in his best interest for her to be locked up etc.

OH. I don't know enough about him to comment. I am just glad he is stepping up for the kids.
Why would it benefit him if she were locked up?

 

[JBean]

Thanks JBean, keep us posted. BTW, hello. Haven't seen you since the SD fires.

OT HI SuzieQ

 

[SoccerMom]

From tmz.com

The Commish in the Brit case just issued his order -- K-Fed gets sole legal and physical custody. Brit gets nothing. The man is a dirty snake IMO.

Why do you consider him a dirty snake? He has been fighting for his children, and now it has taken countless officers, two lawyers, and who knows how many paramedics to retrieve their kids from her custody. I would be doing the same thing! I am not a fan of either one of theirs, but at least he seems to be providing a good home for their children.
And she needs to be held accountable for her actions last night/this morning. As someone said earlier in this thread, if it were any of us, we'd be in jail. Maybe that is what she needs.

 

[White Rain]

OH. I don't know enough about him to comment. I am just glad he is stepping up for the kids.
Why would it benefit him if she were locked up?

I am NOT saying this is the case, but he will probably get ALOT more child support if he has sole custody.
I am also glad he seems to be stepping up for the kids. They need their mom, but they also need a STABLE mom. I've been in Brit's shoes...fighting depression, addiction and a custody case all at once. It's NOT fun, especially when you're on the losing end.
I hope this will be a wake-up call for her....before it's too late.

 

[Taximom]

Will he get more money from Britney for their support now? I would think so, but I don't really know.

ETA: Just saw White Rain's comment.

 

[JinxieJada]

Why do you consider him a dirty snake? He has been fighting for his children, and now it has taken countless officers, two lawyers, and who knows how many paramedics to retrieve their kids from her custody. I would be doing the same thing! I am not a fan of either one of theirs, but at least he seems to be providing a good home for their children.
And she needs to be held accountable for her actions last night/this morning. As someone said earlier in this thread, if it were any of us, we'd be in jail. Maybe that is what she needs.

He's making a good home for his children compared to what? He's in the media and is a media just like she is said to be...and he seems to do it in ways to lash back at her..c'mon getting jiggy with herpehilton? After knowing what the mother of his children went through with her?

He's making a good home for his children on who's dime? Not his. That blingity bling he likes to show off I'm sure was not included in his expense report furnished to the courts more than likely.

He's seen at nightclubs getting groovy, getting his "drink on" and obviously he isn't the squeaky clean that he wants everyone to believe. IIRC wasn't he also given the orders not to consume alcohol /drugs prior to having the children as well as in front of?

IIRC it was him who brit kicked out for smoking weed in front of the kiddos. Now personally I think marijuana is way less dangerous than alcohol, but I don't agree with either being in front of nor around children. He abandoned his first baby mama to get with Brit..and had her knocked up before you could say "use a condom honey".

I just think she's one upped him currently which is making him look "good" but if we go back in the past...He doesn't have a good track record either.

 

[JBean]

I am NOT saying this is the case, but he will probably get ALOT more child support if he has sole custody.
I am also glad he seems to be stepping up for the kids. They need their mom, but they also need a STABLE mom. I've been in Brit's shoes...fighting depression, addiction and a custody case all at once. It's NOT fun, especially when you're on the losing end.
I hope this will be a wake-up call for her....before it's too late.

But does she need to be locked up for him to get that much more money? Doesn't he just have to have primary physical? Is the consensus that he is so bad he would have her locked up for money? That is pretty serious charge.
This is in general WR, to those that might believe this is the case.