That assumes Pam knew.
SD, you don't think Pam knew? Certainly she knew afterwards, right? I mean, she'd have to have been told what to remove from the house and know why. She also lied about what she took, stating that it was only clothes for the funeral. We know that a local shop donated the family's funeral clothes anyway, and a dress for JBR can be carried out on a hanger on one arm.
She may have had inklings, but I doubt she gave them a second thought. And she could have lied in good faith.
I think you misunderstand me. I'm not saying she caught him in anything. I'm saying that JB may have let it slip that night and Patsy freaked.
And even if she were dealing with unresolved anger at her childhood, she may still have put JB in those pageants as a way to finally win her mother's love.
Like I said, to a dark place this line of thought will carry us.
Nedra obviously encouraged her to have JonBenet join the pageant circuit. Wwinning love, or just doing what seems natural since it helped you, seems a pretty powerful combination.And even if she were dealing with unresolved anger at her childhood, she may still have put JB in those pageants as a way to finally win her mother's love.
The dark place might be where an emotional dynamic is played out between father and daughter with the pageant role facilitating this. Don't forget Don Paugh involved himself in JonBenet's public activities. So it may not be simply Nedra's love that is being sought?Like I said, to a dark place this line of thought will carry us.
I have an idea about that: she wanted her princess to be as spectacular in death as she was in life, but just spitballing.
That was intended to be rhetorical, it should be obvious Patsy either never knew about the acute molestation or was working around it.UKGuy said:Just why would a mother who had just killed her daughter accidentally, stage a homicide and mask acute molestation?
Certainly the image of tiny JBR in her white coffin, pageant dress and tiara, full make-up, blonde curls shining once again (what a difference from just a week or do earlier- the autopsy photos showing the matted hair, pale skin, and awful ligature marks) combined with the world-wide coverage and TV camera rolling makes a spectacular death a reality.
As far as any evidence that was never found - panties, cord, roll of tape, etc. Let's put Aunt P under some truth serum- we'll find it all.
Toltec, I understand what you mean, but although children of that age (9-10ish) prefer to spend their time with their own sex, (that phase lasts just a few years), kids of that age, especially boys, are very interested in sex. There has always been a sexual curiosity between siblings of the opposite sex, and sexual exploration is not unusual. I can well imagine parents of an older boy (say, 9-10) who was found to be "exploring" his little sister (say, 6) might very well tell him about "incest" or even point out the definition in a dictionary.
HEY! Didn't that very thing happen? Yes, I think it did.
SD, you don't think Pam knew? Certainly she knew afterwards, right? I mean, she'd have to have been told what to remove from the house and know why. She also lied about what she took, stating that it was only clothes for the funeral. We know that a local shop donated the family's funeral clothes anyway, and a dress for JBR can be carried out on a hanger on one arm.
What I meant was that it wouldn't do to have a pageant princess killed in an ordinary, garden-variety domestic incident. She deserved better. A child beauty queen killed in her own home by a pedophile monster? How cool is that!
Just spitballing.
Didn't she take John's Golf Club Bag?
How easy it is to place a small pair of panties, a piece of a paintbrush, the roll from the tape, and left over rope IF there was actually any left over in the bottom of the bag? With the clubs in the bag, nobody would notice a thing unless they emptied the bag to inspect the bottom.
By the way..... is it definitely duct tape that was used and not some other type of tape?
I was wondering if it could have been black tape taken from the baseball bat handle?
It was duct tape. There was a particular type and color sold at 2 paces in Boulder- one of them was McGuckin's Hardware, where PR had shopped just a few weeks before, purchasing items costing the exact amount to the penny as the nylon cord used in the garrote and a roll of the exact type of duct tape.
8 year-olds are different from almost 10 year-olds. 8 year-old boys are sexually curious and tend to play doctor at that age....but by age 10 they are not the least bit interested in the opposite sex. Don't get me wrong...10 year-olds do develop crushes on girls but rarely do they attempt to kiss a girl let alone touch one.
I can see Burke striking JonBenet in a fit of rage....but I don't know about the molestation.
Yes, "mushy" romantic stuff would make most 10-year-old boys go "Yuck". But sex play is another matter. "Show me yours and I'll show you mine", those kinds of things. Boys that age do masturbate. Ask any doctor. It sometimes starts even younger. I don't know if you raised young boys, but I find that many women do not like to think of even their high-school sons having any sexual activity. I even know one or two woman who insist that their college-age sons are "too busy" for interest in sex. I can't rule out BR as a possible molester of JBR.
I totally agree with your "hierarchy" of likely scenarios, with JR as killer, and PR as accomplice in the coverup.DeeDee249,
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a BDI is near last on my list of theories. Which go like this: JDI, then JDI and PDI e.g. collusion, then PDI and lastly BDI, and last of all ERDI, that is extended family member did it?
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Do you mean Burke molesting in the adult sense of exploitation or something less sinister?
Patently Burke may have molested JonBenet and he may have whacked her and killed her, but why did he need to? That he and JonBenet shared beds was no secret, that they argued as brother and sister do was also no secret, so I do not see any real motive for killing JonBenet. Also the same argument applies here as it does to the PDI, why was medical assistance denied to JonBenet? Not unless you want to speculate that at the age of ten Burke was a psychopath?
a BDI is near last on my list of theories. Which go like this: JDI, then JDI and PDI e.g. collusion, then PDI and lastly BDI, and last of all ERDI, that is extended family member did it?
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