AR AR - Cassie Compton, 15, Stuttgart, 14 Sept 2014 #2

[honesty]

It looks that way, but I'm not sure how much I trust it. Click "edited" and see both versions of the post. Why would he say "You are in my prayers and in Roy's as well"??? He is Roy, and the first one isn't "signed" by him.....then look at the comments. It tags KCs page & she comments as herself not the brother? Does she mean KC & KT or KC & RC? It's just odd....

Here is my take on it, I believe it is KT herself that posted, she posted as him. I looked both of her pages and his page. It looks like she gets on his account a lot. My sons GF does that stuff and to be honest it really irritates me. I have seen it not only in a lot of teens but actually in a few adults. It boils down to trust issues, and in some cases it is because the male does not post the lovey love stuff and the girl/woman will go on his account as him and post as him about how in love he is with her or how beautiful she is. Am I making sense? I hope you are able to follow that crazy mess.

Guys who have SM mostly share, and rarely post. My boys and spouse all have SM and in a months time I bet they all only share something about 4-5 times each and maybe they will post something once a month.

 

[Caring4Many]

Here is my take on it, I believe it is KT herself that posted, she posted as him. I looked both of her pages and his page. It looks like she gets on his account a lot. My sons GF does that stuff and to be honest it really irritates me. I have seen it not only in a lot of teens but actually in a few adults. It boils down to trust issues, and in some cases it is because the male does not post the lovey love stuff and the girl/woman will go on his account as him and post as him about how in love he is with her or how beautiful she is. Am I making sense? I hope you are able to follow that crazy mess.

Guys who have SM mostly share, and rarely post. My boys and spouse all have SM and in a months time I bet they all only share something about 4-5 times each and maybe they will post something once a month.

I agree-and ditto on the female posting as the sweetie. I feel the same way about couple FB pages.

 

[iamnotagolem]

Here is my take on it, I believe it is KT herself that posted, she posted as him. I looked both of her pages and his page. It looks like she gets on his account a lot. My sons GF does that stuff and to be honest it really irritates me. I have seen it not only in a lot of teens but actually in a few adults. It boils down to trust issues, and in some cases it is because the male does not post the lovey love stuff and the girl/woman will go on his account as him and post as him about how in love he is with her or how beautiful she is. Am I making sense? I hope you are able to follow that crazy mess.

Guys who have SM mostly share, and rarely post. My boys and spouse all have SM and in a months time I bet they all only share something about 4-5 times each and maybe they will post something once a month.

I've noticed this same thing, I agree it's typically a trust thing. I know some couples who share a FB page b/c the wife wants to control who her husband talks to and read it.

Based on the maturity level displayed on FB by KC I'd highly doubt she went to LE with the "secret" from Cassie. I would not assume LE is aware of her post on FB. It did not show up on Cassie's page, but if they've logged into her FB then I'd hope they saw the notification from when KC/KT tagged Cassie.

The more we learn about Cassie, the more sad I am. It's like her life was bad but it keeps getting worse.

 

[honesty]

The more we learn about Cassie, the more sad I am. It's like her life was bad but it keeps getting worse.

I too doubt that KT/KC went to LE.

Yes Cassie's life is tragic. I don't know how much more we can learn, but I do hope we learn some positive things, this poor baby has so much stacked against her. It is sometimes hard to understand how other families live, because we do not live the same way. It is hard to grasp that some people are the way they are, but they are the way they are. We just never know is going on behind other peoples closed doors.

 

[believe09]

One of our strengths is gathering the details, gathering resources and spreading the word. The key to this case will be nailing it all down and getting that word out-I believe that firmly. The thing is this is a situation that is a pressure cooker for someone-you think you can ride this out and that things will die down, but just remember that embers still burn. Better to get it off your heart, whether the info is small or big. Talk to a pastor, a friend, write it on a slip of paper and slide it under a door or man up and call...it doesnt matter. Cassie deserves to be safe-she has always deserved that. I know this because she is a child and children deserve to be cherished and to be safe. It isnt too late to bring her home from wherever she may be. Do it. Call, write, whisper it into the wind....

It is time to end this, kwim?

 

[honesty]

The secret...

I know some of you have led on thinking that it may be a pregnancy because of the recent doctors appointment. But lets try to think of what other kind of secret it could be other than the obvious we all wonder about when it comes to a girl (ie pregnancy)

I have a couple of things I will toss out there....

1) she was going to report drug use/abuse/dealing and was scared.

2) She wanted to move out because she was involved with someone and wanted to move in with him. He may not be on the obvious account, we know she had more than one FB account and we do not know if she used KIK or other apps that kids are using that keep things even more secretive than FB.

3) She wanted to report abuse of any kind to CPS and was scared. (That has vibes of Britany Wood)

 

[Caring4Many]

I just called SPD & reported the post. The dispatcher is having someone call me back. I couldn't leave it up in the air wo knowing for sure.....


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[honesty]

I just called SPD & reported the post. The dispatcher is having someone call me back. I couldn't leave it up in the air wo knowing for sure.....


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YOU ARE FLIPPING AWESOME! Thank YOU! Now we will know for sure that it has been reported.

 

[Soulmagent]

Why would the sister inlaw sister, not have her missing poster listed on her FB page? Her friends did not even know that Cassie is missing. Were not talking a week or so, and she is just coming out now.
Obvious sees thing different than we do. IMHO

Her post was October 17th..

Her brother mentions being upset in more than a few post . It is possible they have been spoken to by LE and know more than we think about what has happened. Or it is possible that family members are telling them things to guide their beliefs a certain way.

 

[borndem]

Wow what a night!!! Great info and great thoughts percolating.

Regarding Cassie being quiet on the ride-I have no dog in the fight per say, but if Cassie considered TS and HS a safe haven, having to return to her home might have caused her to be unenthusiastic and quiet. I wish we knew if it was uncharacteristic for her to be quiet. It feels like it might have been part of her personality. My 30K foot view is that we have a teen who was suffering here, regardless of the causes. It is clear her life was not easy. IMO. (in my opinion.)

I want to bump some of the search posts and comments regarding local areas and the possibility of surveillance cameras. The possibility that suspicious activity was captured on camera gives me some serious hope.

Just now getting on this thread, so this is a late comment on your post... so please pardon...

I have thought all along that something was "wrong" or at least not fun for Cassie at home. It could be simply that she was moody (at that age, we were all moody, but it was the "air" and the folks around us that helped us deal with it well or ill). She just doesn't look happy in the pics I have seen -- her facial expressions make me sad for her. Maybe it was truly MDD/BPD, we may never know... I would think at home she would be more quiet than outgoing -- people of that age often hide how they feel from parents just as a matter of wanting privacy and some control over how people react to us, or to how much of ourselves we want to give away.

I, too, wonder how she was with her friends -- silly and fun-loving or morose and quiet with them as well. And maybe she wanted to seem a bit mysterious -- drama, drama at that age, too. I haven't really seen here what any of her friends have said. I do not FB, so whatever is there, I have not seen.

It just all seems sad to me. Bless her heart. I hope she is happy somewhere & doing well, but my logic and experience say again that we have lost her forever to something ugly & unkind. Whoever he/she/they may be.

 

[Caring4Many]

YOU ARE FLIPPING AWESOME! Thank YOU! Now we will know for sure that it has been reported.

Hahaha! Thank you? I think we can all say that we've seen many things we assumed were known end up as unseen. I know in some cases I've worked with families and LE on it's better to ask and have them say it's been looked at already.

 

[Soulmagent]

If u read the secret post its her Brother speaking on his wifes FB... notice how he ends it

she confided in her brother!

Well it must be upsetting him because his post seem to imply he is in a lot of personal pain.

Which Brother?

Maybe we need a basement thread for these facebook conversations....And a player chart?

 

[Soulmagent]

Hahaha! Thank you? I think we can all say that we've seen many things we assumed were known end up as unseen. I know in some cases I've worked with families and LE on it's better to ask and have them say it's been looked at already.

I hope you mention the facebook ,like ,password given out thing.

 

[honesty]

Well it must be upsetting him because his post seem to imply he is in a lot of personal pain.

Which Brother?

Maybe we need a basement thread for these facebook conversations....And a player chart?

A basement thread would be very helpful.

 

[honesty]

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[iamnotagolem]

Do we have a running timeline that we could add to? Here are some dates/times. I'd like to see this more detailed & kept up to date.

9/14 - 6:05p HS dropped Cassie off
9/14 - 6:45p HS returns to his home
9/14 - 7:00p HS receives text that Cassie was going for cigarettes
9/14 - 8:00p JC wakes from a nap and Cassie is gone
9/14 - 9:00p BR rides his bike to police station to report her missing
10/4 - 8:00a search at airport
10/9 - JC posts to FB for the first time mentioning Cassie
10/15 - 7:12a JC posts that butthead is gone
10/18 - KT/KC posts that she told Cassie's secret

 

[honesty]

Do we have a running timeline that we could add to? Here are some dates/times. I'd like to see this more detailed & kept up to date.

9/14 - 6:05p HS dropped Cassie off
9/14 - 6:45p HS returns to his home
9/14 - 7:00p HS receives text that Cassie was going for cigarettes
9/14 - 8:00p JC wakes from a nap and Cassie is gone
9/14 - 9:00p BR rides his bike to police station to report her missing
10/4 - 8:00a search at airport
10/9 - JC posts to FB for the first time mentioning Cassie
10/15 - 7:12a JC posts that butthead is gone
10/18 - KT/KC posts that she told Cassie's secret

I Was jus thinking today we needed this, but my ADD is in high gear and I knew better than to attempt it. I have spent the entire day chasing down a missing lanyard and realizing I have multiple drinks open.

How about adding the meeting that was held Sunday afternoon at 2 discussing teams and what each team was to do.

 

[iamnotagolem]

9/13 - 1:30p Cassie picked up for trip to derby in Dewitt
9/14 - 6:05p HS dropped Cassie off
9/14 - 6:45p HS returns to his home
9/14 - 7:00p HS receives text that Cassie was going for cigarettes
9/14 - 8:00p JC wakes from a nap and Cassie is gone
9/14 - 9:00p BR rides his bike to police station to report her missing
9/14 - 9:14p BR calls TS looking for Cassie
9/15 - TS calls police department reporting Cassie missing
10/4 - 8:00a search at airport
10/9 - JC posts to FB for the first time mentioning Cassie
10/13 - TS appears on JVM - transcript here http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/1410/13/ijvm.01.html
10/15 - 7:12a JC posts that butthead is gone
10/18 - KT/KC posts that she told Cassie's secret
11/9 - 2:00p meeting to discuss forming teams to split tasks
11/9 - Cassie's FB page liked her missing fb page

 

[Soulmagent]

9/13 - 1:30p Cassie picked up for trip to derby in Dewitt
9/14 - 6:05p HS dropped Cassie off
9/14 - 6:45p HS returns to his home
9/14 - 7:00p HS receives text that Cassie was going for cigarettes
9/14 - 8:00p JC wakes from a nap and Cassie is gone
9/14 - 9:00p BR rides his bike to police station to report her missing
10/4 - 8:00a search at airport
10/9 - JC posts to FB for the first time mentioning Cassie
10/13 - TS appears on JVM - transcript here http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/1410/13/ijvm.01.html
10/15 - 7:12a JC posts that butthead is gone
10/18 - KT/KC posts that she told Cassie's secret
11/9 - 2:00p meeting to discuss forming teams to split tasks

And the date the Cassie's facebook profile liked her own missing facebook. 11/9

 

[honesty]

This is a great start! And, as has been done in other cases this can be edited as needed and posted every few pages to that people coming in fresh and new can get the basics real fast. Excellent job!