SheWhoMustNotBeNamed
Former Member
I apologize if my post came off as harsh. And I was by no means trying to lump together everyone from McCleary that didn't search. Things happen. People have their own demons, their own issues, health problems, no one to watch the kids, etc. SS, you covered it well. There are many reasons why people wouldn't have made it to the search. And yes, those reasons are perfectly fine. I am in no way criticizing anyone in these circumstances. And by all means, I know that not all people who cared or who wanted to help could do so. Exactly like those of us here at WS. Some people could help, others could not. That's just how it is. But...no one will ever convince me that every person in McCleary except 5-10 had something other than "I don't care" stopping them.
The "right thing to do" is NEVER the right thing to do because any individual or group thinks it is. The "right thing to do" isn't built by opinions or circumstances. Helping people for any reason or cause, isn't the right thing to do because it has special meaning to certain people. It is, because it is. That doesn't mean it's always possible to act on the right thing. And I'm not saying that those that didn't search did the "wrong thing". Clearly not. But that doesn't stop the right thing from being the right thing.
I'm really not trying to start an argument or point any blame. But really, as jvk said, it does hold some value. Yes, it's over and it can't be changed now. But I can't help of think how much more might have been accomplished with more searchers. What one extra clue might have been found.
IMO. And thanks, again, to those that were able to, and continue to, help in any way.
The "right thing to do" is NEVER the right thing to do because any individual or group thinks it is. The "right thing to do" isn't built by opinions or circumstances. Helping people for any reason or cause, isn't the right thing to do because it has special meaning to certain people. It is, because it is. That doesn't mean it's always possible to act on the right thing. And I'm not saying that those that didn't search did the "wrong thing". Clearly not. But that doesn't stop the right thing from being the right thing.
I'm really not trying to start an argument or point any blame. But really, as jvk said, it does hold some value. Yes, it's over and it can't be changed now. But I can't help of think how much more might have been accomplished with more searchers. What one extra clue might have been found.
IMO. And thanks, again, to those that were able to, and continue to, help in any way.