Moo... Jesse would know how her parents care take and discipline. I could not leave my child with my parents ever...I feared them. Jesse seemed to trust her parents..or maybe not now?...since Gus is still missing...but usually you would know if your parents were lying.
..moo
Money can always be a realistic issue, limiting child care options. But, I agree. Jess was not a baby having babies. And she had years of adulthood to reflect on the parenting style she experienced and others experienced. There has been no reason to think she would go tend sheep if it put her children at risk.
This case flummoxes me, because it appears to be a murder, IMO. 4 year olds are quite vulnerable to accidental deaths compared to people a bit younger or older. Tthey are fairly independent, so they are trusted more than younger children. (When he wakes up, he'll get out of the car and come in for lunch.)
But it can be a mistake to trust four year olds. They slip in and out of fantasy so easily, which can make them afraid or unafraid at the wrong times. Their judgement is tainted. (I'm wearing my magic cape!)
Yet, it does not seem at all as if this is a situation is a horrific 4 year old accident. The extreme scene cleanup doesn't add up. The circumstances, if they showed poor parenting judgement, it could be minimized. (Ex: they could claim a poison was just taken off a high shelf and left out a moment, the baby cried, and Gus ate it right away. Instead of admitting to routinely leaving the poison in his reach and trusting him not to consume it.)
And, it appears that the apparent lie about Gus playing in a dirt mound itself almost admits to more than people might. A half hour unchecked is a long time for a four year old. It would be the amount of time that might elapse if, say, the parent fell asleep with the baby. Which I could easily see happening. I would imagine a person would at first say that they just closed their eyes for a minute, before coming to the realization that they slept quite a bit while the baby napped. And then, I'd expect LE to tell trackers and searchers the 1/2 hour truth, while telling the public the parent dozed off.
It strikes me as a long time to not look at Gus in between caring and caring for the little brother and cooking dinner, which I believe is what was said. I think it's weird that the apparent lie is a longer time than I think a four year old would be left alone without being glanced upon by a parent who is awake.
Then, if you're going to lie that Gus was playing in the pile, which I do believe would entertain a child his age longer than most activities, why not put the things I bet he'd have with him on that pile of dirt? Sticks, rocks, buckets, shovels? Why say he was wearing boots, when they would quickly become irritatingly filled with dirt and be removed, most likely?
Nothing about this case makes sense.
MOO