Perhaps the media were after sensation regarding 'the mistress' and 'the (wicked) cheating husband', trying to crack the case, sell more Sunday papers. I mean, a reporter could have asked TM 'Were / are you especially close to GBC?' And she could (quite truthfully) have replied 'Yes'. Bingo! They must have been having a sexual affair - or must they?? You see, if ABC understood her hubbie well, she might have realised that his very close friendship(s) with TM (et al) didn't mean that G didn't love her and the girls. Although I'm sure all the 'hot goss' would have made her squirm with embarrassment and even chagrin at times, she probably would have been able to accept his behaviour, knowing that the liasions were not of a sexual nature. It's really not so uncommon for many men to have good platonic female friends while married. In some cases, it actually helps to keep the marriage going. (Just playing devil's advocate here).You could be correct, but I don't think- and just my opinion, that the 'mistress' would admit to having an affair as has been reported, if it was not of a sexual nature. Wouldn't you be more likely to come out and clearly state you weren't having a sexual affair, if you were merely just close emotionally? Just my thoughts. It seems more likely to be a sexual affair. To put a cat among the pidgeons though...who know if it was an 'accepted affair' by his wife.. no theory, no fact..just a whatif. So many conflicting reports..they were virtually estranged to they were so close and loved each other dearly.