poppypopcorn
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Also can we talk about how on earth their marriage has survived or is surviving this?! If he were my husbo I woulda kicked him to the curb loooong ago. And if I hadn’t I definitely would have after February!
…unless of course she forms a vital part of the “duo”…
Course you would. I would have too. But whatever you think of Mrs, it's clear that she is not as confident and outgoing as her husband. She has also been with him since she was very young. She's never really worked, had a career, she's been "just a mum" dependent on him for income. And we've all seen the lack of respect Mr shows to women in general. A lifetime of being told you're useless, lucky to have him, that nobody else would want you, stupid, incompetent etc etc etc grinds women down. Yes some snap and those are the ones who are up in court for murder and it all comes out that he's been tracking her phone and isolating her from her friends for decades. But for every one done for murder how many are just living quietly, accepting this is their lot in life and preferring to turn a blind eye to the lies and affairs because being with this man is less scary than the idea of having to start again on your own.
I don't believe she is a co-conspirator. She does as she's told and doesn't ask questions. That doesn't make her innocent, but she's definitely not the driving force.