Flinders -- thanks button isn't enough for your post above.
True, every word. Makes me mad that I haven't the strength these days to start up just such a fight.... and I mean a -fight- !!
Our kids, every one of them, deserve so much more than DOCS "misjudgements" (read: abject incompetence, cause that what it IS, Pru...) when they really need someone to fight for their lives.
I spent some time today looking at my lovely 14yo, and remembering how gorgeous she was, how good she smelled, how sweet and cuddly she was, when she was little...
Of course, I adore her at all ages.. but at 2? She literally stopped people in their tracks to smile at her, that's how bright a light she was.
And that's what I see, when I look at the pics of Tanilla, and I can't help but imagine ... well, I can't imagine her suffering, it's unthinkable, unbearable. Instead, I imagine her in the kitchen of someone truly loving and kind, eating a giant cookie and drinking milk, scribbling with crayons and smiling... safe and happy and loved. Just as my own little girl was, and always will be.
How hard is it, to take good care of a tiny, sweet girl.... or boy, for that matter. It's NOT hard, is what.
And we live in a country that is literally up to its neck in resources for those who cannot cope with the task. We do more for our underpriveleged than just about ANY country on the planet. No child has to go unclothed, hungry or homeless in this nation, IF the parents aren't too stupid or selfish or drunk or stoned to actively seek help.
NO EXCUSE! Chuck the book at 'em, I say.
And then pick it up and chuck it repeatedly at Pru, her crappy employees (those not, ahem, currently incarcerated for wife-beating) and all of their ilk, until some common sense and decency is knocked into 'em and things change for the better.