The dangers of unofficial missing person campaigns
We all want to help, we all feel frustrated and heartbroken that we can't magically bring this beautiful boy back to his family. It can be so painful for parents to read about this case and see no recent updates being given by the police (although we must remember that just because we aren't seeing public updates, it does not mean the police aren't making progress). But, even though we might feel this way, we need to realise that not all 'help' is helpful, some is actually a hindrance to the investigation and painful for the family.
Take for example, the
unofficial W4W Walking Warriors Australia Facebook group, who creates and shares their own William posters on social media, despite the family asking that only official police approved posters be shared. As a result, an image circulated last year with the
incorrect Crime Stoppers phone number attached to it. The group have also publicly questioned the police investigation and released rumours and hearsay that are not of benefit to anyone.
Loren O'Keeffe, sister of Daniel O'Keeffe and Founder and CEO of the Missing Persons Advocacy Network told Kidspot that these measures
should be left to the family and the police to organise.
"It is very distressing when third parties create unofficial materials for missing persons," Loren said in a statement.
"Families are upset enough as it is when a loved ones disappears; to have the additional stress of a stranger assume a role or identity only adds further trauma.
"It also muddies waters when clarity is absolutely critical; it’s very important that people understand that duplicating pages for a missing loved is not helpful. It is counterproductive, misleading, and can be dangerous.
"Our organisation will only work with the families of registered missing persons, and families are always given complete control over which media stories and campaigns they participate in, as well as all materials that are published.
Loren also reminds those that wish to 'help' that they need to be mindful they are heeding the family's wishes.
"It is their loved one who is missing, so they should always be the ones to decide what is published publicly, where and how."
http://www.kidspot.com.au/parenting...s/news-story/d87ddf67c0517030f0ecf23c0172d252
Interesting that NC says the police have not even been to speak to her.