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This is heartbreaking to read. Your poor kids. I didn’t meet the kids in his life but I did see plenty of pictures of his godchildren and others kids. He touched the lives of so many people.



This is heartbreaking to read. Your poor kids. I didn’t meet the kids in his life but I did see plenty of pictures of his godchildren and others kids. He touched the lives of so many people.
Absolutely @branmuffinConsidering the extraordinary actions his friends went through to locate their friend, the police could probably eliminate their prints.
Thank you @whitelilac . So grateful to each and every one of you who has shown those of us who knew him kindness and love.I just don't have words. I don't know Ben, but he certainly is a person I would love to have known.
Extraordinary person, who has touched so many lives.
My heart goes out to all his dear friends, everyone who knew him......
1. I don't see any problem with a close friend having a key to Ben's condo. Friend also has my key. D guessed the password.So many questions.
I understand DS and Ben were longtime friends but why would DS have Ben's condo key and his Apple password? Why would DS be trying to get into Ben's iPad?
If Ben had been driving Thursday night from northern AZ why would he have planned to meet DS for early breakfast? Seems more reasonable he would have crashed and slept in.
With ZERO leads, why would DS instantly start looking around hotels? Just seems so random. But then, he almost instantly finds Ben's car - not out in an open parking lot but on the 4th floor of a hotel's parking garage?!!
And DS somehow also had the VIN / license plate / other pertinent info to give to Lexus, even though he was not the car's owner nor a family member? Why would he take that action without first contacting Ben's family, most especially his aunt, the OWNER of the car?!
When DS first spotted Ben's car + the three people why didn't he immediately dial 911 to get cops on their tail (that's kinda what they do) before running after them himself?
Obviously I don't have all the facts but given the reporting we do have to date, too many WTF's in this story.
JMO
Very succinctly and respectfully worded xI didn’t know Ben but have been following his case from the beginning. I have so many questions, thoughts and responses to your post but for some reason, I feel like nothing I would say would be of any value to you. I’m very sorry for your loss!!
@BenjaminJAndersonAllyCurious this is not in the main stream media much. In fact, with a Google search, it was difficult to find anyone reporting the existence of the Go Fund Me efforts/the $25,000 reward. This news outlet’s Facebook Page supposedly had something written in reference to it, but when I clicked the link, it appeared to have been removed. I couldn’t find it. I looked back 18 hrs ago (when Briana made the post to her Twitter) & beyond, but I didn’t have any luck.
A few ideas:
1) According to the Go Fund Me campaign, this is not coming “out of their pockets” (except for any donation(s) they have chosen to make to the cause themselves).
2)At last glance, Dan & Sue had raised $5,535 of the $25,000 promised as a reward. I have no doubt they will meet their financial goal of $25,000 as Ben was so widely loved by people in all walks of life from many states as well as multiple countries, but in the event that they do not, then, do they intend to pay the remainder of the promised reward out-of-pocket, or is the person who comes forward with the info’s reward limited to what Dan & Sue are able to raise via their campaign? Has this been voiced or otherwise expressed anywhere?
3)I suspect (conjecture only) they may have initiated this campaign to save face. They were near immediately “called out” by some for not offering the first reward “for information leading to an arrest” or the like. (Notice it took them a week +2 days to decide launch this Go Fund Me campaign. Why?)
(Remember, initially, they offered a $10,000 reward only for the safe physical return of a live Benjamin J. Anderson.)
3) Other reasonable theory is … Perhaps another key goal in developing the Go Fund Me campaign is to do just as they have successfully done with you, Brad - to convince others what fantastic friends they are with the hopes of taking any and all focus & suspicion off them as potential suspects and/or as having had some sort of involvement in Ben’s disappearance & subsequent death.
Or does it not exist because they didn’t know what the situation was an were already running on adrenaline fight/flight mode and did not want to be seen directly filming in case it exacerbated an already dangerous situation that evenI can do a complicated task and do every step correct, sometimes it gives me a little false confidence and I’ll get sloppy towards the end or skip a step out of arrogance… always to my detriment.
When I originally brought up my doubts on his “friends” all I was thinking/ asking for is if there were multiple people together that saw the “3 suspects”, and aboard for the “car chase” then where is the footage from their phones??? Does LE have it? Or does it not exist because it never happened?
This ^^^^We definitely don’t know if they took pictures or not. I’ve been in that parking garage, it’s not very wide. Coming upon 3 people in a narrow drive (two standing outside, one in the car) in that garage at 12:30 am in a moving vehicle, I only assume it was dangerous to whip out phones and start taking pictures. They did recount that they called 911 and the car departed when they noticed each other. But nevertheless, the purpose is to help find those who did this. Regardless of whether they had pics on their phone or not, we KNOW the hotel had clear camera footage. Like I said, it’s narrow so if they have footage of the trio in Ben’s car, they have footage of the friends in their car entering and then leaving in pursuit.
I believe someone suggested the trio was made up. The security guard said they could see the people so unless the friends lied to police (assume they’d be arrested by now) it seems the trio exists.
Additionally, I’ve been out to see the UEI parking lot where the car was lit on fire. The building has cameras all the way around it. Basic police work would indicate they’ve collected all of the footage.
On top of all of that, Lexus knew where the car was and had been. I assume LE also has that. If the friends were culpable, I could only imagine how easy of a case it would be to solve.
@Another friend of Ben I am so sorry for your loss and I hope that you all get the answers you so desperately need to avenge Bens senseless evil murder of such a loved man xMy aunt wondered the same thing. But taking it someplace like a hotel parking lot with cameras would make it seem like a bad plan. Anything is possibly. I hope law enforcement makes an announcement soon.
Thank you for your condolences.@BenjaminJAndersonAlly
I am sorry for the loss of your good friend Ben
And welcome to WS although I’m sure you would prefer not to be here under these circumstances.
May I respectfully ask- you appear suspicious in relation to Dan and friends role in Bens disappearance and what they may or may not have done. Do you have information to impart that makes you feel this way? Or discussions
held with Ben that may give rise to them not being as close friends as is being put forth by their words and actions?
I’m flipping through the threads, I can’t find the response to this question. Anyone else find it?Thank you for your condolences.
I have answered your questions in multiple previous posts.
I realize this thread has gotten lengthy, and many of my posts are now several pages back.
I am pretty new to WS, as you are aware, so I am not sure what thread search and/or filter capabilities are available.
While I welcome the questions, if there is a way to filter the thread to read my prior posts in reference to your questions, that would be best.
Which question ??I’m flipping through the threads, I can’t find the response to this question. Anyone else find it?
IMO I believe they had contact with the Aunt earlier in the night when they were trying to reach Lexus and report him as missing. That info would have to be provided to Phx PD when reporting him missing.So many questions.
I understand DS and Ben were longtime friends but why would DS have Ben's condo key and his Apple password? Why would DS be trying to get into Ben's iPad?
If Ben had been driving Thursday night from northern AZ why would he have planned to meet DS for early breakfast? Seems more reasonable he would have crashed and slept in.
With ZERO leads, why would DS instantly start looking around hotels? Just seems so random. But then, he almost instantly finds Ben's car - not out in an open parking lot but on the 4th floor of a hotel's parking garage?!!
And DS somehow also had the VIN / license plate / other pertinent info to give to Lexus, even though he was not the car's owner nor a family member? Why would he take that action without first contacting Ben's family, most especially his aunt, the OWNER of the car?!
When DS first spotted Ben's car + the three people why didn't he immediately dial 911 to get cops on their tail (that's kinda what they do) before running after them himself?
Obviously I don't have all the facts but given the reporting we do have to date, too many WTF's in this story.
JMO
@BenjaminJAndersonAlly ...I’m flipping through the threads, I can’t find the response to this question. Anyone else find it?