I still ask many of those questions and, was shocked to learn that my daughter is bipolar with a personality disorder. But the truth is you never know what to think, Sometimes when they are rebellious, you do not call it mental illness, you just hope they will agree to go to therapy and outgrow this phase, (that is what I was thinking)
Most of the time, she was a good kid, who grew into a nice person .Now she is angry all the time, especially at me because I had to call 911 on her.
I know people that are in their 60's and are arrogant, rebellious, and think the world threw them a curve ball. However, they are not MI. But sure act out a lot.
NON THE LESS many MI people have the same signs, it is not so easy to diagnose, or even identify, and it only gets worse and worse.
Easier said then done![]()
Songline,I understand what you are saying,and in most cases the signs are probably very subtle,but I don't think this was the case with Jared. At least for the last few months. He sounds like he was positively crazy. From what I understand the sheriff's office was aware of his problems and under Arizona law could have had him taken in for a psyciatric evaluation. As for his parents it was very clear from the college that he needed meds. We don't know much about them,maybe they don't believe in medications,who knows. All I know is ,it seems like all the signs were right there,but people chose not to act.