I agree with you, I don't think church is for everyone ... but some families who don't go never expose their children to it and how are their children supposed to know at a young age if they ever wanted to go or not?
They have a preconceived notion based on what their parents thought.
And I'm addressing this to everyone, not just you, mindi

I know, I know. They are YOUR kids, so YOU know what is best for YOUR kids, right? BUT let me ask you. How many of you here wish that your parents would have done something different for you growing up or let you have been exposed to some different viewpoint other than their own --- not necessarily religion??? Be honest.
It's really hard to be in one corner of the ring or the other on this topic because I can see why some people would want to shelter their kids and blind them from something they don't want their children to hear or believe simply because they don't believe it and don't have an open mind to it.
And they don't want their kids to be brain washed either.
But on the other hand, kids are going to find out one way or another on their own, especially with the Internet.
And they will eventually, if they are inquisitive enough, choose to seek their own truths and answers.
If their parents put the fear of their backhand into them, then they may choose to never seek out anything other than what their parents choose to tell them is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, and that is sad. Because we should always thirst for more, whether it is the truth or not. We should never stop trying to learn more ... whether it's what we belive or not. So we're educated enough to fight our own battles and know when we choose to engage in debate why we're arguing and why we believe whta we believe and not what the other believes.
Whew, I'm tired now. :doh: