SnowAngels,
You are not cold-hearted. Thanks for sharing your perspective. You present as reasonable, fair and open; and I'd bet money you like to laugh and have fun.
Does anyone think there is a way to learn the identity of the person who contacted Melisas while she was on the east coast?
Well, her email address is floating around here somewhere IIRC. I think that's the only way anyone is likely to get a straight answer, if then.
I don't believe LE is withholding the information or refusing to release it. But now that I think about it, I'm sure Casillas isn't difficult to find either.
That's the only two possibilities I can come up with....unless that person comes forward on their own.....or that person doesn't exist.
Consider this; If Melissa called Oog's parents at 4 am their time, and their son had been dead for two days, then she called them from NY and it was 10pm (EST) on June 3rd OR she called them from CA and it was 7pm (PST) on June 3rd.
The notes attached to the autopsy report, dated June 4th at 7:10 am indicate that the French Consulate notified the next of kin. That means Melissa contacted his parents first.
According to the same set of notes, Melissa referenced suicide, to Det. Casillas, on the early morning of June 4th or it must have been the day before because the report is noted 9:30 am June 4th. He goes on to say that he intends to interview Melissa and Oog's family when they arrive LATER IN THE WEEK. But by Melissa's own account she was already there.
It looks to me as if Melissa did talk to Casillas. I get the impression he didn't refuse to talk to her. I suspect he did talk to her, but that he refused to GIVE her information and that's what she wanted. I think she called Oog's parents once she ran into being told that she wasn't family over and over again.
According to her she:
Found out
Called LE and got nowhere
Hopped a flight
Tracked down Casillas
Called the newspaper (and got the suicide response)
Called Oog's parents.
Now if she called Oog's parents last, as is stated in the video, then she called them from CA at 7 pm PST on June 3rd. My question is, if she did all of this before she contacted his parents.....how long had she known exactly?
So no one Oog knew was aware that he was dead. Not even his own parents. No coworkers, nothing. Yet this mystery caller whom Melissa refuses to indentify knew and subsequently so did Melissa.
This caller seems to be the missing link and she doesn't seem willing to throw their identity out there. Why? What possible motivation could she have for withholding this information?
As it stands right now, we have no reason to believe there was a caller to inform her that Oog was dead. All we have is her word and what she says changes over and over and over again. So what we have is a man who (if we believe) was murdered in his own apartment, and his ex-girlfriend who seems obsessed with him some four years after the fact and lives 2400 miles away, and she knows he's murdered before anyone else does.
In keeping with THIS theory, I'd have no choice except to assume that there is a high degree of loyalty that remains between Melissa and the mystery caller/killer or the truth will implicate them both. She moved back to the CA coast AGAIN not so very long after Oog was killed and that too strikes me as being odd, unless it was because of a man. She's just left there the previous January?!? I'd be looking into who Ms. Nix spends her time with and the pre-existing connections that any of those now close to her may have had to Oog.
That's ONE OF my opinions :banghead: